SURSUM CORDA - LIFT UP YOUR HEART

2010-09-07T08:02:00.002-04:00

September 7, 2010
Well, we thought that we had a site for the Thrift Shoppe. Everything looked pretty positive unitl last Thursday evening when an offer was made for the purchase of the area. So, it sold.
Obtacles continue to come our way but I am not discouraged. If God wants this to happen it will.
Keep praying.

Tomorrow is the Blessed Mother's Birthday. Happy Birthday, Mother of God.

Pax et Bonum

Msgr. Deliman

2010-08-28T14:08:00.004-04:00

Katrina

Dear friends:
August 29 marks the fifth anniversary of what may very well be the worst natural disaster in United States History, or at least in our memory. As Hurricane Katrina made landfall on that fateful day I had no idea how it would personally impact my own life.

The Church, as she always does, responded by asking for special collections to help those suffering from the devastation. But in the parish where I was serving as pastor, I had people asking me "I will give whatever money is needed, but, Father, how can I help right now?" They were looking for ways to get personally involved. In the immediate aftermath, it was impossible to figure out what to do. Destruction was of catastrophic proportions. Assessments were needed and people's lives needed to be stabilized in some way.

What happened in our parish and to me is where I want to take this reflection. Discussions at Pastoral Council over the next few months led to a decision by St. Agnes Parish in West Chester to "move beyond our comfort zones" - i.e., to go the Gulf and do whatever would be asked of us.
Thirty-eight parishioners, ages 18 through 76, signed on with their pastor to spend a week in the fishing village of Bayou La Batre, Alabama.

Thirty-eight folks went at their own personal expense, shared a piece of a gym floor for a week, prayed together, made new friends and tackled what seemed the impossible. Clean-up, plumbing, roofing, masonry, you name it and our folks did it - uncomplaining, generously, sacrificially!

Each day started with Mass. Out came my trusty Mass Kit. The Liturgies were among the best I ever celebrated. Evenings found us, after showers, some dinner and other clean up, praying together and sharing the events of the day. Five years ago and even to this day, much of the rebuilding was done and is done today by faith-based communities.

I was never a missionary that got to go to a foreign country but the Gulf Coast experience came pretty close. I never did roofing, but I quickly learned. A shower with hot water became a greatly appreciated"event." The gym floor of the Lutheran Church may have been more comfy that what the displaced people had; simple conversation with folks who experienced the worst was a blessing. The people of the Gulf Coast and especially, Bayou La Batre, Alabama are a resilient people. No "woe is me". They were rebuilding long before we arrived and they continue to this day.

I once saw the aftermath of an earthquake in another country. The aftermath of Katrina was personal and the worst that this poor servant ever saw. But, as beat up as the people were, their smiling faces welcomed us with open arms - "Thank you for coming".

God bless the Gulf Coast.
God bless St. Margaret Parish in Bayou La Batre
God bless those 38 Disciples in Mission of St. Agnes Parish.

Pax et Bonum

2010-07-31T14:11:00.002-04:00

July 31, 2010

Happy St. Ignatius of Loyola Day.
One thought from the writings of Iggy the Basque Founder of the Jesuits:
He might ask you if you have a made a good Examination of Conscience Today?
How to do that?
1) Give thanks to God for the benefits received
2) Ask for the grace to know your sins and rid yourself of them
3) Give an account of your soul from the time you got up until the moment of the examen
4) Ask for pardon for your faults
5) Resolve, with God's grace, to do better.
...say an Our Father

I had to cut loose the person with whom I was negotiating the possibility of aThift Shoppe. I thought, at first, we had reached an agreement but further waiting and waiting and waiting and...a delay in receiving a copy of the lease just began to give me a bad feeling. Then, because of the wait, a thrift shop opens across the street from our convent. I don't want to be in competition with anyone. Now it's a wait and see game.

Sometimes obstacles are for a purpose and this trial will lead us somewhere, I am certain. In Spanish they say, vamos a ver, i.e., we'll see.

I still need one more volunteer Math teacher. Just asking for one and a half hours weekly for some advanced math work in the eighth grade. One day, morning, one and a half hours. To share with others what God has given to you.

Pax et Bonum!

2010-07-20T08:36:00.002-04:00

July20, 2010

In my 37 years as a priest I have often dealt with the scrupulous conscience, particularly in the Sacrament of Penance. It is a difficult spiritual/psychological issue to deal with. Our seminary directors always gave us clear and precise ways of help the obssessively scupulous individual.

Recently I have been bothered by some thoughts that may be flirting with scrupulosity. Maybe this is so as I grow older and move closer to eternity. That means that sooner or later (and I hope it is later) I am going to die.

Here is what spiked my spiritual concerns. Recently as I was celebrating Mass, I carefully, as I always do, held the Sacred Host at the consecration of the Mass. Suddenly I wondered about the miracle of the Bleeding Host which happened centuries ago. Then I became concerned - have I ever celebrated Mass in a state of serious sin - I hope not!!! But have I!!! And if I did, what did that do to my soul? This is serious stuff, I am thinking. I shuddered at the very thoughts that I was having and how unworthy I am to stand at the altar and celebrate the Eucharist.

Every priest is unworthy. Vessels of clay, men called from among men, and sinful men at that, like the apostles, to celebrate from the rising of the sun to its setting these sacred mysteries.

Just before receiving Holy Comunion at Mass, the priest has a private communion prayer to recite in a low voice. It is his personal preparation. I have been given to also recite an Act of Contrition at that moment as well. My belief - an ancient one of the Church - is that if I have a serious sin my sincere Act of Contrition will deliver me from any perilous spiritual condition.

Priest of God, celebrate this Mass as it were your first Mass, your last Mass, your only Mass.

Pax et Bonum

2010-07-18T09:07:00.002-04:00

July 18, 2010

It has been a month since my last blog.
On a number of occasions I was to sit down and "blog on", but then I got distracted and...

Well, here is some cautiously good news. The Thrift Shoppe may be, and I say "may be", closer to a reality. The landlady seems willing to come down $300. on the monthly rental fee. If her accountant is in agreement, the real estate office for the archdiocese will review the lease and give us the green light. I am cautiously hopeful. Prayers, please.

One person has stepped forword to volunteer for an advanced math program for our school children. I need another one or two volunteers. We are just looking for 0ne and a half hours a week, during school time, morning. This could benefit our students greatly. We are very heavy on programs for the slower students. We have nothing for an advanced child. And there are no funds to hire more personnel. Think of this as a way of giving back to God what God has given to you.

This is a special week for us at SMT. The Gospel Roads program by the Salesians begins today. These youth workers will be with us all week ministering to the poor, children, the handicapped, homeless, and doing some habitat. Please pray for them that they be safe in their work and their prayer. We are excited. They have dinner each night here at SMT. Stop by and say Hi and bring a dessert. These are really nice kids.

Finally, the men's group faithfully meets every Wednesday in the rectory at 7:15. They end promptly at 9:00. Come on out. Weekly attendance is not required. Just come in at will and join some guys who talk about God. By the way, these men are ordinary men, not overly pious, not wearing their faith on their sleeves. Just men being men in the best possible way. And I am grateful to some of these guys who will help with dinner for the Gospel Roads kids on Tuesday night.

Pray for me please.

Pax et Bonum

2010-06-17T16:34:00.003-04:00

June 17

This weekend is Fathers' Day. As I reflect on the the wonderful memories of my Dad, I am grateful that I had a Dad who was at my side every step of the way. He went the way of all human flesh in January 2003. There is not a day that I don't think of him and I carry within me memories of a man of faith, of strength, a provider. Imperfect as he was (aren't we all?) he tried hard to be the best Dad.

My Dad was a WWII Vet. He fought in the Battle of the Bulge. We knew he was wounded twice, but that was about all. Like so many of the "greatest generation", he rarely talked of the War. I wish now that I would have pumped him for more information. Upon his death we found in our attic some letters of commendation and a box of medals. We never knew they existed.

He was a Steel Worker and Pipe-fitter by trade. Never finished school, but he had more common sense than a Harvard Ph.D. He could do anything. I know, we all say that about our dads. That's okay. If you had or have a Dad, it's perfectly acceptable to sing his praises.

Dad was a man of faith - in a simple kind of way. He loved the Church, his parish and the priests. There was nobody, in Dad's book, like our old pastor in Morrisville. They were kind of alike when I think about it. No nonsene. No frills. Shot from the hip. You got what you saw. It was the heart that identified them both. Diamonds in the rough. Yeah, that was dad and that was the man who ran our local parish church.

I once commented to Dad that I had one regret in life and it was that I never served in the military like he did. I still sometime have this regret. Dad's response was: I served enough and saw enough war for all my three sons. One of my bro's did put five years in the Air Force.

As I said, Dad was a strong man. I would never have wanted to tangle with him. One very sad day for me happened near the end of his life. He was in the hospital dying of asbestosis. It might have been about two weeks before his death. He asked to be adjusted in his hospital bed. As I did, I pulled back the covers to hoist him up and I saw that he was in a diaper. I couldn't contain myself. I lost it. My strong, iron-willed Dad, the pillar of my life, the best of all teachers, so dependent on everybody else. He would have been mortified. Outside the hospital room, I cried and prayed to accept God's will. But he surrendered himself into my hands, those of my Mother, my brothers and hospital staff.

Naked we come forth from our mother's womb and naked we return to the earth from whence we come.

Dad, Happy Fathers' Day.

You would be proud of me. Some of your plumber's skills have rubbed off on me. I am no stanger to a pipe wrench. I can take a part a sink trap in no time flat.

Pax et Bonum

2010-06-14T08:29:00.004-04:00

June 14, 2010
Flag Day

Silence is golden. It has been a while ... time for me to reflect on many, many things ... too mountainous to share ... the Priests' Convocation in Hershey... a change in our house ... the on-going pain of scandals at home and abroad ... our own clergy re-assignments that have given me some personal agitation ... the coming close of the school year ... and, thank you Jesus, my annual retreat coming next week.

We are losing a good priest here at SMT, Father Joe DiGregorio. He was so welcoming to me when I arrived here some 18 months ago. I will miss his quiet presence and his advice. He more than carried his share of responsibility in the parish and beyond. May God bless him in his new assignment.

As disruptive as these changes may be for a parish, imagine what they cause within the family of a rectory. One of our family is snatched away and the void is felt. So, men as we are with an emotional side to us, please pray for us as we adjust ... for Father Joe and for those of us who remain.

Father will celebrate a Mass of Farewell on Saturday, June 19 at 4:00 P.M. followed by a reception in the parish hall.

We look forward to the Gospel Roads Program that will come to SMT the week of July 17th. Under the auspices of the Salesians of St. John Bosco, young men and women (college, post-college and high school age) will be with us for a week, witnessing to the Lord Jesus and doing outreach work in various ways. You will be seeing a lot of them during that week.

The "giving tree" in June is to provide them with water and small snacks as they perform apostolic works. Any donation toward these good works are appreciated. We are expecting about 32 youth missionaries. Among them will be members of our parish Youth Program.

An update on the Thrift Shoppe: We are not there yet. Two very generous donations have come to help get started, but it is not enough. The realtor requires a month before and a month behind the regular monthly fee. We just have to be cautious that we are not blindsided and hurt the parish. Please pray for the success of this project so close to my heart. It would demonstrate the Church's commitment to the poor.

I may well get my knuckles rapped by my superiors, but we have decided to take on a Salesian Volunteer for at least a year to work with the youth of our parish. There are some very modest financial obligations for us to meet and I just feel, in spite of our $$$ stresses, the Gospel needs to be proclaimed. So be it! Father Cooke has already put down the foundation for a good program. We now have a young man who can take it to another level. Youth have always been a priority for me in assessing parish life. Pope John Paul II reminded us of that constantly during his pontificate. Pray for the success of this effort.

I am asking you to do a lot of praying, aren't I?

I met with the President of a local Catholic University recently. My goal: to ask for an investment on their part in our Parish School. That's a big one and still all over the place. Another prayer intention.

I am looking for:

+ Someone with math skills, who could volunteer one and a half hours per week to help with some advanced math. It is a need which we are unable to afford. Any takers??? We have nice kids who deserve a break!! I will personally cover any "clearances" to work with minors.

Fly the Flag today.

Pray for our intentions.

Pax et Bonum

2010-05-15T10:56:00.002-04:00

May 15, 2010 The Seventh Sunday of Easter
...and Ordination Weekend

I will be ordained a priest for 37 years on Wednesday of next week. Here is a reflection on this Seventh Sunday of Paschal Tide and on ordination weekend here in our diocese. I want to give this brief reflection in the context of this weekend's Holy Scripture and also in the context of the life and death of a priest you probably have never heard of.

First off, the first reading is from Acts and it is the story of the martyrdom of St. Stephen. According to tradition, Stephen was a deacon of the very early Church, of the Church in those years just after the resurrection of Jesus. Stephen was a powerful preacher and some found his words just to hard to bear. He was stoned to death and as he was dying, Scripture says that he used the same words as Jesus used from the cross: "Into your hands, I commend my spirit."
St. Stephen is always pictured as young, vibrant full of life and energy.

The Gospel is a prayer. It is a prayer of Jesus for his new priests as they sit at the Last Supper table. Jesus knew only too well the situations that they and the future priests would face.

That's the Scriptural context. Now I want to give you the context of Father James Coyle. He was shot to death on the front porch of his rectory in August, 1921 in Birmingham, Alabama. Just a few hours earlier Father Coyle had presided at, what we used to call a mixed marriage, i.e., a marriage between a catholic and non-catholic, in this case between a catholic and a methodist.

The father of the methodist was so angry that he shot the priest dead. The shooter was a
methodist minister.

This was a tense time in America. Fear of immigrants gripped our nation (sounds familiar in 21st century America) and this same fear embraced groups of so-called patriots such as the KKK.

Some states enacted laws that allowed for searches of convents, monastaries and catholic hospitals. The Knights of Columbus were accused of stockpiling munitions and plotting a papist takeover of the nation. Father Coyle defended the Church, the rights of immigrants (and he himself was one) and the Knights of Columbus, who stand for Patriotism, Unity Charity and Fraternity.

On Saturday, six men were ordained priests for service in our diocese. Over 400 priests attended a Convocation this past week together with the Cardinal and our auxiliary bishops. We reflected on the sacredness of our vocation and the challenges that we face today due to the scandals and a secular society.

We need the conviction of and the energy of St. Stephen who was filled with the Holy Spirit. Our eyes, like Stephens must be fixed on heaven. Our hearts filled with the Holy Spirit.

I ask for a prayer today. For me, for all priests, for the newly-ordained. "Holy Father, Keep them, keep us in your love.

Pax et bonum.

2010-05-03T08:32:00.002-04:00

May 3, 2010
Catholic Marriage Numbers
Here are some interesting stats that recently caught my attention:

Number of U.S. Catholics: 68,115,001 in 2009
Number of Catholic marriages in U.S. in 2009: 191,265

Now here's the kicker: Despite the fact that there are 20 million more Catholics in the U.S. than there were 35 years ago, the number of Catholic marriages has dropped to less than 200,000 per year. This is about half the number performed in 1975 (when I was two years ordained).

So if you expressed the marriage stats in a the form of a pie, here's what you have:
(2009)
34% - married in church
3 % - married, not in church, but convalidated or blessed.
16 % - married, not in the church nor convalidated.
12 % - divorced
5 % - widowed
4 % - living with a partner
25 % - never married

There are only 14 marriages scheduled for the present calendar year in this parish.

Pax et Bonum

2010-04-28T08:35:00.002-04:00

April 28, 2010
Questions we deal with on booking a marriage?
Cohabitation???

Did you know that until 1970 cohabitation was illegal in the U.S.?
Today, stats from the Census Bureau tell us that 5 million unmarried men and women are living together. This is a 1000% increase in fifty years!!!

More than 50% of newly married couples have lived together prior to the marriage and 14% had lived with a previous partner.

The Church teaches that cohabitation is morally wrong and that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage, marriage is the total giving of each spouse's physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual being without reservation.

...and what about trial marraiges? There can be no "trial" or temporary marriage or marriagelike arrangements.
Couples who live together before marriage run a higher risk of divorce - as much as 85% - so say some studies.
In cohab arrangements there is a higher incidence of domestic violence and abuse, depression and money conflicts.
Just 4% of cohabitating couples remain together for 10 years.

It is no surprise that when a cohabitating couple approaches the Church for the Sacrament that they are urged to live apart and abstain from sexual intimacy.
Living chastely helps couples understand the sacrifices involved in marriage, improves communication skills and opens them to the different dimensions of life and of being married.

Pax et Bonum

...and we received a months rent from a generous benefactor toward the Thrift Shoppe idea. We also have a group of Realtors hoping to help sponsor us for the first six months. Keep praying because "nothing is impossible with God".

2010-04-21T20:16:00.002-04:00

April 21, 2010
I am still intent on opening a Thrift Shop to serve the neighborhood. I need a benefactor or benefactors to help us with the monthly rent. The owner wants $800. a month. A liitle much and to the moment I have been unable to get the person to compromise a bit. The owner is very open to our idea.
We have another nibble for help, but unsure.
Maybe someone would pilot us for six months to see how we do. It would also buy us some time.

Pax et bonum.

2010-04-17T13:00:00.003-04:00

Third SUNDAY of Easter - April 18, 2010
I put the word "Sunday" in caps for a reason. It will become evident as you read on.
I struggle somewhat with the Saturday "vigil" Mass. I have moved from being an advocate for this practice (many years ago) to nearly becoming a staunch critic of this time for a Sunday Mass. I become even more agitated as the hour gets advanced. It has moved from 5:00 P.M. in some places to 4:00 and, I am told (and I hope the info is wrong) to even 3:00 P.M. I ask, why not have it at noon? Why not skip the Sunday celebration altogether?

My struggle continues. I was a rather young priest at the time and lunching at the Cathedral where I was stationed with Cardinal John Krol. The Cardinal was questioned about why Philadelphia was almost the last stronghold. Why no Saturday afternoon Mass? His answer has always remained with me. Very politely and very carefully, the aging Churchman said: " My fear is that the Saturday vigil Mass will become "the" weekend Mass in a parish. That it will lead to a lessening of emphasis on Sunday and the importance of Sunday." He went on: " We have already lost so much of Sunday. What makes the day any different from the regular routine of life??

You know, the old man was not far off the mark at all. I am often with priests as we discuss these matters and I am pleasantly surprised to hear other priests say that they have strong feelings about and against the practice that has been in effect since 1983.

The Saturday vigil serves well in areas of our country or other countries where the priest has several mission stations often 100 or more miles apart. Visit the Dakota's, Wyoming, Arizona, New Mexico, to name a few.

I think that some, not all, use the Saturday Vigil to "get it over with". If that is the case, why bother going at all.

If the use of the Vigil is to allow for more servile work on Sunday, then it is a use that is an abuse.

Quite frankly, the practice has just made for more lazy-assed Catholics who often fall into the same category of those who can't even remember to abstain from meat six days a year. And some of you will remember when abstinence was a big part of our tradition.

If I have offended your virgin ears, so be it.

Our Mass here at SMT is on Saturday at 4:00 P.M. But the Holy Spirit is leading me to quickly make a shift. I have made few changes in my sixteen months here. I have not seen the need to make any nor re-invent any wheels. But this is one that bothers my soul.

If the Mass signaling the Sunday is most properly placed, then it should happen at sunset. How would that fit into your schedules at most of the times during the year! The Jews, upon whom we derive much tradition, set the sabbath with the setting of the sun. The bodies of the crucified could not remain on the crosses for the sabbath. So they were hastily removed and dispatched before the beginning of the sabbath.

I may take some criticism for this, so be it. I stand by my beliefs.

As a P.S. - one holy bishop recently referenced the following: all the Christmas Eve Masses and fewer Christmas Day Masses. His observation: The holy day is not Dec. 24. It is the 25th. I've noticed that ads show that some of our non-catholic brethren don't even show a service for Christmas Day. The practice is contagious.

Yes, I am seriously praying over this and talking with my associates about changing the Mass to 5:00 P.M. on Saturday - if we have to have it! And I mean that. If we have to have it!

Pax et Bonum

2010-04-02T10:06:00.003-04:00

Good Friday - Holy Saturday 2010

"He descended into Hell".
Sometimes referred to as "the harrowing of Hell". "Harrowing" is an Old English word for "robbing". Think of it as Jesus stealing away those souls long awaiting their redemption.

When we repeat these words in the Apostles Creed, what is it that we are professing?
This "hell" is not our Christian concept of eternal damnation. It is the Jewish concept of Hades or Sheol. Jesus went there to liberate the righteous ones who lived for justice and died before Jesus Himself had lived. Jesus rose to free them. The Gospel is preached beyond the limits of space and time.

Greek Orthodox Christianity believes that Christ does not rise alone but as head of all the holy ones, for how could the justice of God be established by exclusive treatment for him rather than by a community with him?

...so, in silence, we wait for the Victory celebration of Easter morn.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-30T20:07:00.003-04:00

Wednesday in Holy Week 2010

Holy Thursday is a special day for a priest. On Holy Thursday morning all priests join with their bishop to celebrate the Chrism Mass. It is at this Mass that the priests renew their commitment for priestly service. It is an awesome moment for the individual priest as well as the entire presbyterate.

This year's observance coincides with some not so happy news in the media. The terrible scandals of sexual abuse by clergy has made the headlines once again. The news from Ireland and Germany, to name a few, has reopened the same deep wounds here on stateside.

This is troubling to the priests who will renew their commitment on Thursday morning.
+ That something of this magnitude could even happen!
+ That the trust of our vocation could be so compromised and violated!
+ That the vessel of clay spoken of by Paul the Apostle could be so scratched and cracked!

Priests are not perfect men. They are penitents as well as confessors. They regularly go to confession as well as hear confessions. Pope John Paul II used to say that a good confessor is a good penitent.

But, no one ever thought that such misbehavior would happen. I certainly never did. I still remain jolted by the whole thing. Just when I think that I have heard it all, I am again surprised and disappointed.

I ask: "Why"?

I am disappointed by my colleagues. And frustration descends and muscles in on my prayer and reflection. I am careful not to condemn but I do not deny the need for penance and retribution.
The news is no better even when one considers that the cases reported are not recent. The fact is that they happened. My prayer is that there are no new cases. That sacrifice, penance, honest admission, holiness has purified the soul of the presbyterate.

Sincerely speaking, I pray for our Church, our damaged credibility. We are truly damaged goods seeking repair, to rebuild in an already sinful world.

Sometimes I hear it said that the Church must put this scandal behind us and move forward. Perhaps better said: we ought to deal with it head on and do so by both the leadership and the priests. Apologies only go so far. Often they have seemed empty and just full of nice words.

Maybe the Church and, also the clergy, became too comfortable within the structure of power. Power can corrupt and that is what we may have experienced. A corruption born out of privilege.

The Gospel calls us to return to a simpler way of life in all ways: for bishops, priests, religious, seminarians. Maybe we all need to be put into the brown robes of St. Francis, be given a cell and, fortified with the Holy Scriptures, "rebuild the Lord's Church."

I make my re-commitment on Thursday a troubled priest. Not because I am about to despair or lose hope but because I feel that we have distanced many of God's people from the message of the Christ of Faith. I am less concerned for the loyal Catholic than I am for the fence-sitter, the questioner, the young, the non-catholic christian, the outsider who wonders about what is happening on the inside.

I love my priesthood and after 37 years and (living through these last ten) my spirit and my zeal are no less en-kindled
+ Celebrating Mass is the high point of my day.
+ Hearing confessions continues to remind me that I am instrument of God's loving mercy.
+ Standing at a bedside with the Holy Oils reminds me that I have a lot to live up to - being an "alter Christus".

Pray for us priests.

Pax et Bonum
My Holy Thursday Thoughts for 2010

2010-03-29T20:49:00.002-04:00

Monday of Holy Week 2010

More Catholic Holy Week "Word Nerd":
+ On Palm Sunday, the Western Church gives out palm branches. But what about your friends who are Byzantine or Ukrainian Catholics. What do they get?

+ The four Gospels give us four accounts of the Passion. Which do you think was the first written?

+ What name does Wednesday of Holy Week have? Not often used today.

+ At the Easter Vigil, the priest or deacon solemnly intones "Lumen Christi". What does it mean? How many times is it sung?

+ There is a fertility symbol used at the Easter Vigil. Anyone want to take a crack at this one?

+ When is Low Sunday?

I continue to pray for you during this week.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-27T10:32:00.002-04:00

Palm Sunday 2010
To borrow a term from the Catholic Radio Network, let's play a little "Catholic Holy Week Word Nerd". You will be coming to church, I hope, during Holy Week. Do you know the meaning of the many symbols that we will use? Here we go:

what is:
+ the respository
+ the ambry
+ humeral veil
+ urn
+ paschal candle
+ grains of incense
+ stylus
+ ciborium
+ ingrediente ???

Why does the priest kiss the altar, at the beginning and the end of Mass?
Is a cross or a crucifix the preferred liturgical symbol on Good friday?
Does the Liturgical directive indicate a number for the Washing of Feet?
Is there a Mass on Good Friday?
What time must the Easter Vigil begin? Not before____?
When does Lent end?
When does the Paschal Triduum begin and end?
What do we mean by the Octave of Easter?

Send in your answers today.
All those who do so will be specially remembered at Masses during the Easter Octave.

2010-03-25T14:51:00.003-04:00

March 25
The Annunciation (occurring in the Fifth Week of Lent)

I just returned from taking the Sacraments to an elderly parishioner. She made a confession, received Holy Communion and the Anointing of the Sick, but before our Liturgical Rites, we talked. We talked about our parish, the parish that was and the parish that is. For an old person she was remarkably positive about both lives of this venerable parish on the Boulevard. She said: "Good people are moving into SMT Parish."

It was refreshing to hear such positive talk. Too many folks are stuck in the past refusing to recognize the present and all the work that needs to be done now. On this Feast of the Annunciation we are called to reply "yes" as Mary did. A "yes" that will continue to give conception and birth to the presence of Christ in our parish community.

One way that we can do this is by opening a Thrift Shop for those who could use such a service. Please pray that this goal can be realized. We will need some funds to do this and I hope that some generous person will come forth to help us. I am to meet with the owner on Saturday. The owner seems most open to our idea, but as always, it's money that often is the obstacle to getting things done.

I am praying and I am confident that some way, somehow, this will happen.
I petitioned the diocese for permission. We need their blessing as well.

... Get ready - Holy Week is coming! It's a great week. Chill out from your normal routines and participate in the rites of Holy Week.

Begin by coming to Confession on Monday night at 7:00 P.M.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-24T06:55:00.003-04:00

Wednesday of the Fifth Week of Lent

I have the greatest memories of my childhood and early teenage years. I was a kid enjoying the country that Bucks County was at that time. Our homes were surrounded with abundant woods and outdoors, canals, streams for fishing. Everything a boy could wish for. In the summer we ran through corn fields with stalks that towered over us kids. We camped out in the backyards of neighbors and our parents didn't have to worry. We were satisfied entertaining ourselves and just "being kids". Winter was a veritable winter olympics. There was plenty of space to ice skate, play hockey, go sledding and have non-violent snowball fights.

I was a paper boy. Remember that long-lost kid job. Arriving home from school, I changed, counted out my stash for accuracy, loaded up my bike and - off I went. Sometimes I got back home after dark. But, being a paper boy in the 1950's gave one a sense of entrepreneurial independence. There was a healthy competition between me and another neighborhood kid who had a paper route as well. Who could get the next customer? That paper route was passed on to each of my bro's. It was great being a kid back then.

Fast forward fifty years and the scene is quite different.
I am saddened this morning to read about a game that today's kids play called "catch and wreck". Children between ages 9 and 15 surrounding elderly folks in parks and homeless people and beating them. Young people of school age running wild in center city and causing havoc. I am unable to see the fun in all of this. From whence comes all the violence and violent behavior? Where is the fun in beating anyone, not to speak of a senior who loved children?

God help us, is all I can say.

I could go into all the reasons. But I will leave that up to your imagination. Two weeks ago one of our seniors left a parish meeting around 8:00 P.M. only to have his car surrounded by some young tuffs who pounded on his car and most definitely frightened the gentleman - and a gentle man he is.

God help us.

May these Lenten Days lead us to peace. That was the Risen Savior's wish on Easter Night.

Pax et Bonum.

2010-03-20T20:53:00.003-04:00

Fifth Sunday of Lent
Formerly called: Passion Sunday

We often say that we are a faith of joy. Sometimes the term "Alleluia Christians" is even used. Well here's the thing. You ought to see some of the faces that I see from the altar or that I encounter at the door of the church. They say anything but joy.

Some church faces look positively ugly, uninviting, saying don't come here, why am I here, pain, gas, irregularity. Really, I'm not kidding.

As a celebrant I have the best seat in the house. I see it all. I see the faces. People goofing off in the pews. Reading the bulletin. Scratching areas of their bodies I shouldn't see them scratching. Catholics have never been great evangelists like other religions. You know - inviting people to church. Knocking on doors and telling others just how great it is to be "Catholic".

As we get close to Easter, It might be the time to look at yourself and ask if you are are a joyful Catholic. Does you face invite others to church?

Pax et bonum.

2010-03-18T15:07:00.003-04:00

Friday of the Fourth Week of Lent
March 19, 2010
St. Joseph Day

A few years ago a movie came out during the Christmas Holidays entitled "The Nativity". I went to see it and subsequently bought a personal copy in DVD. Since then I have begun a ritual that happens sometime in Advent. I spend a night or two watching the movie.

Naturally, I know the Christmas Story as well as any Christian. But what I like most about this movie is the way that St. Joseph is portrayed. He comes across to me as a man, a younger man, a real protector both of Mary and the Baby Jesus.

I have always imagined St. Joseph much in the way that the movie shows him. He questioned, as any betrothed would, the condition of his wife-to-be. He does so with respect but not without the "human wondering" that had to go with it. He loved his engaged and wanted to protect her when the law of Moses called for stiff punishment. An adulteress was stoned.

The whole situation is worked out when Joseph is notified in a dream that it's okay. Mary is under a divine shadow. The Holy Spirit is at work. We call Joseph a man of faith. His faith is demonstrated as the story of the birth of Jesus is played out.

You see the strong Joseph who confronts danger head on.

One particularly touching scene shows the young husband exhausted at the end of a difficult day. Mary is talking to him as she is gently washing his feet with cool water until she realizes that Joseph is fast asleep - dead tired after the events of the day.

Sounds familiar to any good man doing his job of pater familias.

As we remember Joseph today, we remember and celebrate a model of manhood, of husbandhood, of faith, trust and love.

I strongly suggest the Movie.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-17T16:30:00.002-04:00

Wednesday of the Fourth Week of Lent
St. Patrick's Day
On this Day in honor of a great Saint and the patron of a great nation, I offer the following prayer:

Dear St. Patrick, forgive those who celebrate your day without moderation. Give us the zeal and passion for the Gospel that you had. May the Triune God, Father - Son - and Holy Spirit bless all those who celebrate your life and faith. Bless those of good religious spirit and bless those too filled with liquid spirit who have no idea about why this day is noted.
Dear Saint of the Emerald Isle, pray for us.

Pax et bonum

2010-03-16T08:58:00.002-04:00

Tuesday of the Fourth Week of Lent
Here is a quote that comes from today's Office of Readings (Levitucus) chapter 19):
"When you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not be so thorough that you reap the field to its very edge, nor shall you glean the stray ears of grain. Likewise, you shall not pick the vineyard bare, nor gather up the grapes that have fallen. These things you shall leave for the poor and the alien. I, the Lord, am your God."

This passage really needs no explanation. It becomes very clear that we must remain mindful of the poor and the downtrodden.

I have a dream. I think something important to the mission of our parish. I would like to open a Thrift Shoppe. It would assist people of lesser means with used clothing, furniture and the like. The poor we always have with us. Their very presence tugs at the heart TO DO SOMETHING. I have my eye on a rental very near our property. I am hoping that the owner will donate the space for "mission". I am hoping that someone may read this blog and say "I can help with the rent and with the care of the poor".

I am praying these days to my patron, St. Rita of Cascia, the patroness of tough cases.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-14T19:49:00.003-04:00

Monday of the Fourth Week of Lent

Who is that Angel in the outfield?
+ He became the MVP of the Arizona Fall League.
+ The Oakland A's picked him in the second round of the 2007 amateur draft.

Who is that Angel in the outfield?
+ The only player in the entire minors with 30 home runs and 30 stolen bases last season.
He batted .288 with 31 homers, 89 RBI's and 40 steals in 131 games in Stockton last year.
He hit.315 with a league-leading 11 home runs and 27 RBI's in 27 games this past fall.

Who is that Angel in the outfield?
+ The Big West Player of the Year at Cal Poly - San Luis Obispo ranked him as Oakland's #8 prospect by Baseball America.

Who is that Angel in the outfield?
He is Grant Desme, who recently announced that he was leaving baseball to enter the seminary and study for the priesthood. He intends to enter a seminary in Silverado, CA in August. His family has backed his decision and his general manager was understanding and supportive.

Says Desme: " I wasn't at peace where I was. It was time to get to the bottom of things." He is a lifelong Catholic and has been thinking of the priesthood for some time now.
He spoke humbly at a news conference.

Could God be calling you?

Pax et Bonum.

2010-03-13T19:57:00.004-05:00

Laetare Sunday - Rejoice Sunday
...and the week of St. Patrick's Day.

The annual celebration of Ireland's great missionary and saint is nearly upon us. I am not Irish by descent and I am in fear and trembling as I write this blog. But I feel that I must for the sake of my good Irish friends and all Irish Folk of good will.

Dear friends: St. Patrick himself would be be distressed at the manner in which his memory is held...Pub Crawls, Drunken Behavior, being a Public Nuisance, etc. It seems that hoisting a beer, wearing a silly green hat and being loud and frisky have become synonymous with St. Patrick's Day.

Many of my Irish friends are quite put out over this behavior. Those who are old enough will recall a beautiful holy day in Ireland that began with Holy Mass and later in the day brought family together for a holiday meal. They remain puzzled by how the day has become so identified with raucous behavior. One would think that all Irish are drunks and ne'er do wells. I know this is not the case but my Irish friends are beginning to become quite insulted by these allusions.

The Irish, were for many years, the bedrock of Catholicism in our our newly-found nation as well as in the Emerald Isle. Being Irish meant being a hard worker, a believer, a family man/woman, a promoter of justice and fairness. The present celebration of St. Patty's Day (vs. St. Patrick's Day) is an insult to the great Saint and the great Man that he was.

If I were Irish, and I am not, I would not be amused by the manner in which the day is invoked.
May St. Patrick live long in the hearts of the Irish who suffered much for the faith and may he bless the Irish People and all People who are of good will and peace.

St. Patrick, pray for us.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-11T14:46:00.003-05:00

Thursday/Friday of the Third Week of Lent

I found a quote this morning as I was reading and praying the Liturgy of the Hours (Office of Readings). It comes from Tertullian:

Prayer cleanses from sin, drives away temptations, stamps out persecutions, comforts the fainthearted, gives new strength to the courageous, brings travelers safely home, calms the waves, confounds robbers, feeds the poor, overrules the rich, lifts up the fallen, supports those who are falling, sustains those who stand firm.

Never stop praying.

Pax et bonum.

2010-03-08T21:46:00.004-05:00

Tuesday of the Third Week of Lent

Are you a parent, a teacher, a coach, a supervisor, a leader?
if you are, here is some good advice:

1) Never insult an underling personally. Correct the performance, not the person.
2) When handing out praise, do so within earshot of others.
3) Know when to let up.

Pax et Bonum.

2010-03-07T17:21:00.002-05:00

Third Sunday of Lent
Monday of the Third Week of Lent

The Gospel today for the "A" cycle, The Woman at the Well, gives us much to think about. I want to offer one thought. Lent invites us to change, to a conversion. We all need to change, myself included. St. John presents us with a scene that calls for change and, indeed, there is change.
The Samaritan Woman encounters Christ at the well. There is a conversation that does not need to be repeated here. But her being with Jesus is what brings about a change, a conversion. The same is true for us. Spend some time with Jesus. Hanging out with Christ means only one thing - we will change. Conversion will happen.
As we begin the Third Week of Lent, the challenge to change, is front and center. It can only happen if you "hang out with Christ". Resolve to take some time to be with JC this week. It can only be a positive experience.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-06T11:46:00.003-05:00

Saturday of the Second Week of Lent
The Psalm for today: "The Lord is kind and merciful".
Have you ever given thought to that: our God is kind and merciful. He is not out to punish or to beat us down for our irregularities. The Lord is kind, compassionate, merciful. He is a Father with arms outstretched.
On this very sunny day we have a sunny thought. God is life-giving. God never seeks the death of the sinner. God waits patiently for us to say "I'm sorry".
Say the Act of Contrition today with care.
Resolve to return to the old practice of reciting the Act of Contrition at night before getting into bed.

Pax et bonum

2010-03-04T14:19:00.002-05:00

Thursday/ Friday of the Second Week of Lent
Pope John Paul II once said somewhere that if a priest is a good penitent he will be a good confessor. The priest, a vessel of clay, is equally in need of the mercy and peace of Christ in the Sacrament of Penance. This penitent and confessor has learned over these 37 years that frequent use of the Sacrament of Penance is a sure anti-dote to sin.
We are all in need of forgiveness. The Gospel of the first Sunday of Lent tells of the power of a temptation. To stand tough in the face of evil requires the Grace of this Sacrament.
Confession is good for the soul.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-03T11:22:00.002-05:00

Wednesday of the Second Week of Lent
For Philadelphians, today is a special day - it is the Feast of St. Katherine Drexel. This local heiress used her wealth and her talents to Evangelize the People of God, specifically the African Americans and the Native Americans.
Two things for our Lenten Day and Lenten Journey:
1) How well are you evangelizing? Remember that you can do so by word and example. By their works the rest shall know them.
2) Consider a "pilgrimage" for Lent by visiting the Shrine of St. Katherine Drexel in Bensalem, Pa. Exit 95 at Woodhaven Rd. and go north on 13 a short distance.

Pax et Bonum

2010-03-02T07:51:00.005-05:00

Tuesday of the Second Week of Lent
Read and pray Psalm 50 (51) today.
Then, resolve to go to confession within the next 7 days.

Pax et Bonum.

2010-03-01T16:42:00.002-05:00

Monday of the Second Week of Lent
Something to think about today:
A recent poll by the Knights of Columbus reveals the following about Catholics between the ages of 18 and 29:

+ 82% see morals as "relative"
+ 65% see themselves as more "spiritual" than "religious".
+ 80% see religion as at least "somewhat important" in their lives
+ 65% are very or somewhat interested in learning more about their faith.

The poll shows that there are challenges as well as reasons for hope as we move forward.
By the way Catholics between the ages of 18 and 29 are called MILLENIALS.

Pax et Bonum

2010-02-28T09:41:00.002-05:00

Second Sunday in Lent
I have heard the Gospel of Luke referred to as "the Gospel of Prayer". Jesus is a man of prayer and Luke focuses on time that Jesus spent in prayer.
+Through prayer, Jesus knew intimately his Father
+Through prayer Jesus understood his mission
+Through prayer Jesus gained the strength needed to embrace his passion and death.

Even on the cross, Jesus prayed. He prayed for his persecutors. "Father, forgive them..."
and again, "My God, My God, why..."
In praying the Psalms, the prayers of his tradition, Jesus gained that inner strength.
Today we have an experience of Jesus in prayer. He goes to the mountain and in prayer he is transfigured.
Lent invites us to know more deeply the Christ of faith and we can only do so in prayer.
Take some time today for private, personal prayer.

Pax et bonum.

2010-02-27T11:40:00.002-05:00

Saturday of the First Week of Lent

Be perfect as the heavenly Father is perfect. (Today's Gospel).

Herein is the radical message of Jesus Christ. Think about it. Christ sets the bar as high as he could. He calls for perfection. He calls for a new behavior. Love your enemies and those who don't like you. Pray for those who persecute you and talk about you behind your back.
There is THE challenge. Just to bring yourself around to do what Jesus asks.
This Christianity "stuff" is not for the weak of heart.
...a good Lenten examen for each of us.

Pax et bonum.

2010-02-25T07:53:00.002-05:00

THURSDAY OF THE fIRST WEEK OF LENT
Today's Gospel very simply asks us to be kind. Treat others as you would want them to treat you. This is not just a Christian mandate but it is a universally accepted and desired message by all faiths, and all men whether they are believers or not.
We value our personal dignity and identity. We must also see and value the dignity and identity of others.
so, when you are tempted to be unkind, in speech, action or thought, keep in mind the Evangelical message of today: Do to others what you would have them do unto you.

Pax et bonum

2010-02-24T07:45:00.002-05:00

Wednesday of the First Week of Lent

As more snow is predicted to visit us again in the next 24 to 36 hours, there comes along with it an unsolicited Lenten Sacrifice.
We may well become inconvenienced once again. Normal routines will be interrupted by postponements and unwelcomed shoveling. And...the temptation to complain will knock loudly at the door of one's consciousness.

May I suggest that you think about the inconveniences of the people in Haiti, the anxiety of parents as they send their children to school in war-ravaged nations, unsettled neighborhoods in the Middle East, even the weather extremes on our own west coast. We think we have it bad.

You can easily get to the market.
The mail will be delivered without any threat of security.
Most of us have transportation of some kind.
Hunger is, at least, not on my doorstep.

So, as you are doing snow removal tomorrow, do so with a sense gratitude for what you do have.
Appreciate the silence of a world hushed by snowy weather.

Pax et Bonum

2010-02-23T09:56:00.002-05:00

Tuesday of the First Week in Lent

The Gospel today focuses on praying in the right spirit. We are encouraged not to "babble on" and get too wordy, looking for quantity rather than quality.
Often I will remind people that one Hail Mary, one decade of the Rosary recited with a good attitude and with proper attention is more meritorius than an entire Rosary said just to "get it in" .
Take "5" today. Go to a quiet place and raise your mind and heart to God.
Use the Scriptures, a devotional book or just be silent and talk to God in your own words.

Pax et Bonum!

2010-02-22T14:58:00.003-05:00

Monday of the First Week of Lent

It's only a few days since Ash Wednesday and the beginning of Lent. If you made any spiritual promises, I hope that they haven't fallen by the wayside already. You know - the best of intentions.

Before you burden yourself with all kinds of heavy burdens, I suggest that you first look at and review your responsibilities with regard to your state in life. Are you doing what you are supposed to be doing well? Only after you have sharpened the edge of your daily "should do's", ought you take on added pious practices and prayers.

So, Prayer - Fasting - Almsgiving.
1) Did you pray today in some way? Did you check in with the Lord? You don't have time??? What did you do in the car as you were stopped in traffic, etc.?
2) How about one bite less, one drink less, one cigarette less,- you get the gist of the suggestion.
3) The Operation Rice Bowl says it all. Putting a few cents aside (I really did say "cents") can alleviate hunger right here at home.

Pax et Bonum!

2010-02-20T09:48:00.005-05:00

The First Sunday of Lent

Each year on the First Sunday of Lent the Church invites us to reflect on the Temptations of Jesus. The dynamic of a "temptation" is an interesting one. It was a dynamic that Jesus himself faced as he prepared for his public ministry.

Going all the way back to the story of Adam and Eve, we can see how a temptation plays out. Satan is good at what he does. He makes temptation look good. Our first parents were told they could not eat of the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. Satan told them that if they ate of this tree they would have the knowledge of God. They would be like God. Imagine! Wanting to be in possession of such knowledge, such power.

In the story of the three temptation of Jesus, Satan makes food and power look so enticing.

Remember the old Mickey Mouse cartoons? Mickey was tempted. An angel whispering into his right ear and the devil (complete with red tights and pitch fork) speaking into his left ear. The idea is not far off the mark. A dialogue goes on within our deepest self; should I or shouldn't I??

From whence come your temptations?
The devil knows your weaknesses, be sure of that.
He'll get you in a weak moment - tired, hungry, stressed out etc. The devil knows when to knock on your door.

Christ knew temptation. He also knew how to combat it ...
Through fasting and prayer, making the will disciplined and strong.

These evil spirits will be driven out only through prayer and sacrifice.

2010-02-05T06:51:00.003-05:00

February 5, 2010

Today is the celebration of the last of the "winter Virgin-Martyrs", i.e., St. Agatha. We began in November with St. Cecilia (Nov. 22), St. Lucy (Dec.13), St. Agnes (Jan. 21) and today's St. Agatha (Feb.5). All four were martyrs of the early Church and all four are mentioned in the First Eucharistic Prayer of the Mass. From the earliest times their names have been part of what is known as the Roman Canon.

We have also arrived at the secular vigil of what is perhaps the largest non-religious ritual that we have in the United States - the Super Bowl. It is, if you will, a secular "liturgy" with all kinds of symbols. It is the high priests of this liturgy that I am concerned with at times, the PLAYERS.
While not a player, one athlete emerges at this year's national pig skin festival that can teach all a good lesson in moral values. Watch for the ad with Tim Tebow as we are invited to celebrate LIFE.

It was this very life that was sacred to the Virgin-martyrs. They would not compromise their beliefs. They stood for what they believed in, their values.

Sunday's ad during the Super Bowl will ask you to do the same.
Kick-off: 6:25 P.M.

2010-01-31T21:48:00.003-05:00

January 31

Today's blog is just a reminder. Remember to email CBS. Ask them not to have feet of clay and run the pro-life ad during next Sunday's Super Bowl. CBS has agreed, but pro-abortion groups are cranking up the heat. Let your voice be heard. CatholicVote.org.

Pax et Bonum

2010-01-30T18:08:00.003-05:00

...I am alive...and well. Yes, I have been silent for a while. Would like to make all kinds of excuses but none really are valid. Then last week I read an article in which Pope Benedict has encouraged priests to BLOG and thus spread the Good News of JC.

I have to say that I have recently been encouraged by some who have said they miss the BLOG. Truth be told, I got a big head, thinking that maybe I have some followers and maybe I have something to say.

A few years ago, in another parish, I wrote about a young football player named Tim Tebow. I offered him as an example of a good Christian young man who happens to play sports but is not consumed by it. Tebow hopes to eventually be a Christian missionary. He, together with his family, is a pro-Life enthusiast and advocate. The Tebows have prepared an ad to air during the Super Bowl. CBS is willing to do so but ...and this is a big but... pro-abortion advocates are getting ugly in trying to change CBS's mind. Encourage CBS to do the right thing.
There is beautiful picture on the Internet of Tebow being hugged by his mom.
So, I am asking you to TELL CBS TO AIR THE TEBOW AD.

G0 to: CatholicVote.org and they will tell you what to do.

It was o.k. a few years ago for a popular singer to grab his crotch during the Super Bowl. Hardly a stink occurred as our children and young people watched this rather low, lewd act.

Speak now for morality and LIFE.

2009-12-24T09:02:00.004-05:00

Christmas 2009
December 25

Today is one of those days when, probably the least said, is the better. St. Francis of Assisi is to have said: the best sermons preached are those without words.

So, to those of you out there who read this blog, I wish you a very Holy and Happy Christmas.
The Manger Scene and Christmas still bring out the best in me and the kid in me. I really do wish that everyday would be Christmas Day. Not because of all the decorations but because of the spirit that brings us together in a unique way. It is Jesus who does that.

For your reading pleasure, may I suggest the article in today's Inquirer on the editorial page by Susan Fitzgerald "More Than Health Care Gets Us Through the Year".

Pax et Bonum

Monsignor Deliman

2009-12-20T08:48:00.004-05:00

December 20 - O Radiant Dawn

... is the "O" antiphon for today.

It is the day after a snowfall that will make many happy. We will have a White Christmas.
The crest of the new fallen snow reminds us of the purity of the Virgin Mary and our own baptismal innocence. The innocence that we risk at times, due to sin.

Let our prayer today be that on Christmas Morning we will have prepared well - through a good confession - to celebrate the Birthday of the Lord.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-12-17T15:53:00.006-05:00

December 18 - O Adonai - O Lord

O Leader of the House of Israel, giver of the law to Moses on Sinai: come to rescue us with your mighty power. This is our plea today.

May the Law of Moses and the Law of Jesus, the new Moses , be ever engraved in our hearts and minds.

I had a Canon Law professor in the seminary who always insisted that "Law is for liberty". I have never forgotten that pithy little statement. When you think about it - and I ask you to do just that - think about it, Law does free us. It shows us the way to living a just and upright life.

For a Catholic, a Christian - our laws are not binding and restrictive. They point us in the direction of He who is the Way, the Truth and the Life.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-12-16T08:33:00.004-05:00

December 16 - The Christmas Novena Begins

It is nine days before Christmas. Our Catholic tradition has utilized the Novena as a way of preparing ourselves for a great feast of the Church.

Remember, the first novena took place in the Upper Room where the Disciples, together with Mary, waited prayerfully for the coming of the Holy Spirit.

So, we have begun the Christmas Novena today here at SMT. This year I chose prayers that we used in the seminary. I am going back some 47 years ago. They are very traditional, but remind us of the joys and sorrows of the Holy Family on that first Christmas night.

The Spanish community begins Posadas tonight,- going from house to house with the baby Jesus seeking shelter. Is there room in the inn of your heart for Christ? If, perhaps, sin has displaced Grace, why not resolve to make a good Confession before Christmas?

Pax et Bonum.
Monsignor D.

2009-12-12T09:18:00.003-05:00

Me and Christmas

Yes, I have grown to like Christmas very much. And I have learned to be able to mesh the great season of Advent with the Christmas Season and not diminish either. As an aside, I do wish that we could learn to celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas with as much energy as we celebrate the days before Christmas. But this being the reality, I have managed to adapt.

I took a walk this morning, leaving the house at about 6:15. I wanted to be out and about for a December dawn. It was magnificent, the early morning, purple December sky giving way to the new day, prayerfully reminded me of Emmanuel - God is with us!. I suggest that you do the same. You will like it.

This just past second week of Advent was filled with wonderful delights. On Monday our children visited homes while caroling. The Spirit truly moved our young spirits as they dug in without any apparent inhibitions. They sang to neighbors and parishioners reminding themselves and other of the "Reason for the Season".

Then on Thursday we celebrated the "Mass in the Stable". In was brrrrrr.....cold. But the icy December wind didn't dull the enthusiasm of the young and the "young at heart". We tried our best to teach the children. I have always found the Mass in the Stable to be a good catechetical experience.

Today we round out the week with a Mass in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe. What would Christmas be like without December 12. I am told that after Christmas and Easter, Guadalupe is the next biggest liturgical celebration in our Catholic World. Today we offer homage to Mary in her role as Mother of God, Mother of the Church and Queen of the Americas.

I will listen to some Christmas Carols in between today and be glad for December Joy on this Gaudete Weekend.

Pax et Bonum
December 12, 2009

2009-11-24T09:17:00.002-05:00

Thanksgiving Day 2009

On Thursday good volunteers of SMT Parish will sacrifice some time in order to provide a Holiday Dinner for the poor, the alone, our shut-ins, Police and Fire men and women, in a word, to anyone who is looking for Catholic Christian Hospitality. No one should be alone on Thanksgiving Dinner.

Our volunteers are of different ages - all imbued with the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy.

Whatsoever you do for the least of my brothers and sisters, that you do unto Me.

Please pray for the success of our endeavor. Let the prayer be that no one feels shy or embarrassed or fearful.

SMT Parishioners continue to "Open wide the doors to Christ".

Pax et Bonum

2009-11-05T14:33:00.004-05:00

The Annual Forty Hours
A Personal Reflection

The three days that we have come to call the Annual Forty Hours has always been a very special time for me. As a youngster I can still visualize our little church in Morrisville, Pa. decked with flowers and candles. All the externals announced the Divine Presence. My singular recollection is that of all the senses being bombarded. The smell of beeswax candles, the incense and the flowers. The sight of the monstrance being carried underneath the canopy. The Solemn High Mass for opening and closing. The visiting clergy honoring the parish for this special event. The choir singing the beautiful Latin Hymns of the day. The Pange Lingua echoing throughout the church. Me, dressed in my altar boy cassock and swinging the thurible hot with charcoals and burning incense wafting throughout the congregation.

My sense of this time has not changed as a priest - an older priest now.
I look forward to next week. It is almost like a retreat without going away. The church will be decorated and open all day. People, I hope, will come in and out.
We will try to emulate the solemn ceremonies of the past.
Why do all this? Because Jesus Christ is present among us.

Forty Hours will open at the Noon Mass on Sunday.
The church will remain open all Sunday afternoon.
Sunday night will be the solemn procession with the Blessed Sacrament.
Sunday, Monday and Tuesday Night devotions will take place at 7:00 P.M.
Servers will be commissioned on Sunday night.
First Communion Children will be blessed on Monday.
Confirmation candidates will be blessed on Tuesday.
The church will be open to the faithful all day on Monday and Tuesday.

Come and stay a while.

Pax et bonum

2009-10-21T10:29:00.002-04:00

October 21, 2009

Please pray for our staff as we go togther for an afternoon of retreat on Friday. We will be under the direction of the Catholic Leadership Institute. Assembling at the Mother Boniface Center, we look forward to this time together (1:00 - 7:00 P.M.) with only one agenda item, i.e., GOD. Our offices will be closed Friday afternoon.

A new adventure for us at SMT this year there will be the Thanksgiving Dinner that we will serve on Thanksgiving Day at noon in our hall.

Thanksgiving....a special time for all!!!

A Thanksgiving Dinner will be served from Noon until 1:30 P.M. in St. Martin of Tours Hall on Thanksgiving Day. Our invited guests will be those who may, for whatever reason, be alone. An invitation has also been given to our Police and Firefighters who will be working that day. It is our opportunity to put into practice the Corporal Works of Mercy. For all those who help, we recognize that you will want to be with your loved ones as well. Dinner will be served and clean-up will conclude by 2:00 P.M.

Would you be interested in supporting our endeavor?

Ways to help???
* Cook a turkey
* Help serve the meal
* Assist in the kitchen
* Set up
* Clean-up
* Be a driver
* Deliver a "take-out"
*Be a greeter/Hospitality
* Donate Script or Cash toward the dinner

Whatever you do for the least of our brothers and sisters, that you do for ME.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-10-07T12:35:00.003-04:00

October 7, 2009

...and the silent blogger is back on line after a temporary shut down of a month due to vacation plans and then, the necessary post-vacation "catch-up".

I have set a theme for myself for the school year and I have shared this with our parents and now am doing the same with the students. My 2009-2010 theme is "Let's be nice. Let's be nice to one another".

I have asked students and adults to realize the special dignity that each of us possess. We are "temples of the Holy Ghost". We carry within us that unique dignity because we are made in the image and likeness of God. This is an important concept and it is a challenging one to get across to children and adults alike.

I am often astounded when we encounter people on campus who, for whatever reason, don't speak. Whatever happened to the custom of greeting one another as we pass on the street, in the corridors and going and coming from church? There is an ignorance that has crept into our society - either consciously or unconsciously. People walk by one another with never a thought to the other.

I like to say "hi". And it really ticks me off when I say "hi" to someone and you don't even get a grunt back. Sadly our youth have followed in the footsteps of many adults. It is probably a generation and a half already that has lost this one very nice, courteous aspect of daily living.
I have also asked myself, is it our Philadelphia Area that breeds such impoliteness? I am not sure. The next time you travel the Penna. TPK west, take note. The toll taker at this end doesn't care if you are a kangaroo. Arrive at Pittsburgh and you get a big hello and have a nice day. I kid you not. It never fails.

I just returned from Arizona spending 9 days in the Grand Canyon State. Walking the streets of Phoenix and Tucson, I found - to my delight - folks saying hello. Wow, I had to adjust gears. Leave my Philadelphia face behind and put on a new front. It was rather pleasant. People were nice. It is not hard and not much to ask.

Recently, I was standing out front of church before a Mass on Sunday. Coming up the steps were a couple of senior age (should have known better) and I greeted them. Nothing. So, a little louder, I said "good morning" and I emphasized that I was making a point for I am sure they both heard me the first time. I was eventually able to get a typical Philadelphia grunt. I run into the same thing at school both with the parents and the students.

So, I have asked - and I will ask all year and I am going to be a pest about it - Let's be nice to each other, let's acknowledge that Divine Dignity within each other.
A nice smile and pleasant hello can go so far.

At the October-Fest last week, I passed so many people on the lot - with never a gesture of acknowledgment - even from some of the workers. Then my day was made - a sixth grader made it a point to come over, shake my hand and say hello. Must have good parents, I thought.

I once knew a kid from Philly who went off to college in another city. I asked him about the perception others have of Philadelphians. His response to me was shocking but believable. He said: "Oh, most think that we are barbarians. That we are ignorant and have no manners."
So, again, let's be nice. It isn't hard.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-09-14T19:53:00.003-04:00

Holy Cross - September 14

No Cross, No Crown.

When I was a pastor at Visitation Parish in Philadelphia, our Vietnamese Community celebrated a great feast by inviting a Vietnamese Archbishop. I concelebrated the Mass and afterward joined the parishioners for a grand dinner at a fine Vietnamese restaurant in South Philadelphia. I was seated with the Archbishop and enjoyed my conversation with him.

I was taken by this man. There was something about him that drew me. Something almost "mystical". I became fixed on his pectoral cross and chain. All bishops wear a pectoral cross over their heart. In most cases they appear to be fine jewelry. The one I was looking at was quite crude and imperfect. The chain actually looked like something kids might make at summer camp. Anyway, I finally worked up enough courage to ask the bishop about it. When I did, he turned red and I knew I had intruded into a private area. But he obliged me.

Archbishop Francis X. Nguyen had been a prisoner in a communist camp in Vietnam for many years. he told me that to pass the time he would gather pieces of thread and wire and gradually he fashioned what I was looking at and inquiring about.

Here was a man who had carried a cross. Here was a man who had cried as Jesus, in the solitary life of a prisoner My God, My God, why have you abandoned me! He knew isolation. The heartache of not being able to exercise his ministry as priest and bishop.

He never told me any details of his imprisonment but I learned of them later in books and periodicals and from Vietnamese priests.

...and we complain about our crosses, don't we?
Sadly we do.
...being stuck in traffic.
...having to curb our life style by a down turn in the economy.
...adjusting schedules to care for aging parents.
...impatient with our own personal aging and weakness

We complain about these crosses. Forgetting, that if there is no cross there will be no crown.
No Cross! No Glory!

Let us examine our Crosses more closely.
Pray for the grace to carry them as Christ did.
And look to victory by "Lifting high the Cross we are given".

Pax et bonum.

(I am going silent for two weeks - R&R time. Pray for me until then)

2009-09-01T15:57:00.003-04:00

September 4, 2009 - The Year of the Priest
...and more or less an anniversary of mine

I am writing early this week about a day that, in my own odd way, I have always remembered and cherished. It's an anniversary day in my life. A day that I will never forget.
Forty-six years ago on September 4, 1963 I entered St. Charles Borromeo Seminary to begin my studies for the priesthood.

Some might say it is a strange day to remember. Naturally one remembers an ordination date, a wedding anniversary, the day of death of a dear one. True!
But September 4 always presents itself to me as a day when a new and important chapter in my life began. I chose to follow the route my life has taken at the age of sixteen. They look at you today, sneer a bit, ask how a 16 year old could possible make a choice such as I did (and others did as well), joke about all that one missed in the last two years of high school and sometimes even dismiss the choice as immature. I put my hand to the plow and I never looked back. I am happy that I did what I did. I have been happy with the choice that I made and I seem to get happier as the years roll on.

I remember the day as though it were yesterday. My parents drove me up the Boulevard from Bucks County, over City Line Avenue and through the front gates of the Diocesan Seminary. I had this old footlocker with a bullet hole in it and it contained what possesions I was permitted to bring with me. We had to report by 4:00 P.M.. It was the Wednesday after Labor Day. I still remember the two deans of men waiting on the front steps. Father Harry Degnan and Father Joseph Daley (who would soon become the bishop of Harrisburg). I was scared a bit when I heard the one priest say to the other "there's the Deliman boy". Did they really know us that well!

At 4:00 P.M. a bell rang which meant our parents had to leave. It also meant that we immediately, i.e., new men and veteran seminarians, fell into a routine - a routine that we basically would follow each day at 4:00 P.M. It became a schedule we would follow for some years before the Vatican II allowed a relaxing of the daily regimen.

I lived in an open dormitory with 78 other young guys. The open dorm (while I would find it difficult today) was a rather unique experience for a 16 year old kid. Let me just say that I quickly shed whatever inhibitions I had. Privacy was pretty much non existent and a thing called a bell, the Vox Dei (voice of God) ruled our lives and called us to chapel, to class, to the refectory, to recreation.

I look back at all that and thank God for his Grace. I did it and I guess it never seemed tooooo
difficult because it was what God wanted me to do. I rose at 5:00 am and learned to get ready in fifteen minutes because at 5:15 we recited the Angelus and we did it in Latin. Chapel at 5:30, Mass at 6:00 and breakast at 7:00. Breakfast, by the way, was usually in silence.
In this Year of the Priest I find myself thinking of many of these things, thanking God for my priesthood and the many folks whose lives I have touched in these years of serving as an Alter Christus - other Christ.

I am sure there are some I have offended either because I have had to make an unpopular decision, was having a bad day myself (that happens you know, even to a priest) or some one simply has not learned to agree to disagree.

I love being a priest and being with priests. Just the other night I had dinner with four other classmates and we laughed and talked and even shared matters of declining health and vigor as we approach the mid-sixties. You know - aches in places you never even knew existed.

Pray for me on my anniversary. I would appreciate a Hail Mary. And then pray for some seminarians that are very close to my heart. I look forward to the day when I can stand at the altar with them and celebrate that supreme sacrifice that is regularly celebrated from the rising of the sun until its setting.

Pax et Bonum !

2009-08-27T10:07:00.002-04:00

August 27 - St. Monica
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Senator Edward M. Kennedy died on Tuesday past. He was a Catholic and as his funeral arrangements are announced it is not surprising that Mr. Kennedy be given a Mass of Christian Burial.

We Catholics are an interesting bunch of believers. We have strict rules of morality and unchangeable Dogmas of Faith. We can be tough on our own and justly call them to accountability. Our Clergy and Laity both do this. We can be vocal about our beliefs and convictions. And there are times when we are painfully silent.

Senator Kennedy did a great deal of good in his almost half century of service in the U.S. Senate. Mr. Kennedy was also very far off the mark on issues that Practicing Catholics find themselves passionate in debate.

Some Catholics will disagree with his final commendation and farewell within the context of Roman Catholic Ritual. Others will have no opinion either way.

In my 36 years as a priest I have presided over countless Funeral Masses. Many I have questioned and questioned deeply:
* drug dealers
* drug addicts
* cases of suicide connected with satanic worship
* ordinary folks, nominal Catholics, who rarely darken the doors of the church
* a high profile member of the mob
* and..you get the drift.

We have accorded them all Christian Burial because, I want to believe, we have a compassionate nature. We make a case for "mercy upon mercy upon mercy".

In the Book of Macabees we read: It is a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead. No qualifications!

When our President recently met with Pope Benedict XVI it was reported that he hand-delivered a peronal letter from Mr. Kennedy. The contents were never disclosed. I wonder...just wonder...I'll let you fill in the blanks.

So, let God be the final judge and let us be faithful to the words of Macabees and pray for the dead. We Catholics are good at that.

No death in any family is ever a time for sniping, especially within a family of faith.
It is holy to pray for the dead.
Be holy, then, and pray.

Pax et Bonum.
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2009-08-25T09:57:00.002-04:00

August 25, 2009 - Year of the Priest

Moving right along and continuing still with kernels from the recently completed bio of Vianney, I wanted to cite a quote that is good for meditation.

Voltaire was educated a Catholic but became terribly tainted by the immorality of the French Revolution. He bitterly attacked the Church, the Sacraments and her Dogma.
Voltaire is said to have been watching a procession with the Blessed Sacrament. As the Divine Presence went by him he tipped his hat. Challenged by another with regard to this gesture he replied, " It is what one gentleman does to another." Voltaire declined the Sacrament on his deathbed only because he would not contaminate God's blood with his own.

As far as he drifted from the Church, something of the old remained within.
It seems to me that he chose not to complicate his grave spiritual condition any further. Receiving the Sacraments in mortal sin is sacrilege. His conscience was at least formed well that much. Is ours???

Pax st Bonum.

2009-08-24T12:25:00.002-04:00

The Year of the Priest - August 24, 2009

Did you know that there are two kinds of preachers:
+Those who have something to say...and
+ Those who have to say something.

Interesting! I need to think more about that pithy little saying. Again, I am using it in the context of Vianney. It is said that he wasn't a very good preacher, i.e., his delivery. But people listened. That's saying something. Perhaps they listened because his very life was an authentic sermon which said much to his parishioners.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-08-22T14:21:00.002-04:00

Year of the priest\August 22, 2009

In this year of the priest I am learning more and more about Vianney, the patron of the parish priest. Here's a good thought I found in his biography: The Gospel is Good News because it is traumatic news.

Really, to live the Gospel, to be a Christian and an authentic disciple of Jesus, is a unique challenge. No wimps here. Only the strong need apply.

Pax et bonum.

2009-08-20T14:59:00.003-04:00

August 20, 2009
The Year of the Priest

Are you battling temptations? Of course you are. But remember this: temptations are not sinful. As sure as they are an invitation to sin, they are also an invitation to grace.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-08-19T08:16:00.004-04:00

August 19, 2009
The Year of the Priest

I recently read a biography of St. John Vianney. A quote of his caught my attention and is worthy of reflection:

"The worst cross is not to have a cross."

Think about that one. Through the cross we are closely identified with Jesus. So, why duck the cross! Open your arms and embrace the cross in whatever form it takes for you.

I don't think you have to pray for a cross. They come. That's life. But pray for the grace to carry it without complaint...and...without shouting from the rooftops that you have a cross. No need for "woe is me" cross-bearers.

Pax et bonum.

2009-08-11T13:43:00.002-04:00

August 11, 2009

I was away last week for a little r&r and used some of the time to catch up on my reading. My goal included some fairly heavy and intense material beginning with Benedict XVI's latest encyclical Caritas in Veritate (Charity in Truth).
From there I moved on to Dignitas Personae (The Dignity of the Person). which was issued in September 2008 and treats certain Bioethical Questions. For ligher fare, which actually wasn't as light as I thought, I wanted to fulfill the desire of reading a life of the Cure of Ars - St. John Vianney, as we begin this "Year of the Priest". Father George Rutler's book was anything but light reading. But, focusing my powers of concentration, I did it and finished the biography a day or two after the August 4 feast day of John Vianney.

Raeding the encyclical and the Dignity of the Person made me reflect on my Catholic faith and also made me proud of my Church and her leadership. The Pope lays it out quite clearly - no gray areas . Benedict frequently cites the encyclical letter of Pope Paul VI, viz., Populorum Progressio (The Progress of Peoples). It was written some forty years ago and the present Holy Father shows how Paul VI addressed important ethical questions without giving in to the cultural weaknesses of the time. Benedict reinforces what Paul VI wrote about the urgent need for reform in the face of great problems of injustice in the development of peoples. Courageous actions need to be taken without delay.

Papa Ratzinger uses the term "the current crisis" saying it presents an opportunity for discernment in which to shape a new vision for the future. He writes that the world's wealth is growing but so are inequalities and the emergence of new forms of poverty.

In other words, I feel the good Pope is challenging all of us to be honest. Corruption, Illegal ventures and greed have sown the seeds for "the current crisis".

There is much in Caritas in Veritate. Give it a shot. Be patient, it's not an easy read. Benedict does not water down the truth nor does he seek popularity. True charity comes in speaking the truth.

Finally, one thought today on Vianney. While I never really paid a lot of attention to this saint - I think the pictures and statues of him always put me off - in spite of certain eccentricities - there is a human-ness about him that I rather like. He told it like it is. He would have liked Benedict.

2009-07-23T07:51:00.002-04:00

July 23, 2009

I have been a little "hit and miss". Summer has given me some time to catch my breath from a mid-year transfer and...I desperately needed that. Meetings are at a minimum during these summer days (thank you JESUS) so, outside of regular routine, filling in when there are vacations and office calls, I am doing some extra reading and my much beloved hobby - biking. I am even plowing through BXVI's recent encyclical - not exactly easy summer reading. Certainly not beach reading.

Blessings come in veiled ways in our lives. I have enjoyed (and I speak for the 5 monks who live here at 5450) the presence of two seminarians who are doing apostolic work at St. Martin's for the summer months. They have brought a distinct dimension of love of God and God's People, an added dimension to our community life here in the rectory, an insight to a future priest's journey in the 21st century, a plus to our evening house prayers and much laughter. They are keeping the older among us younger in heart and spirit.

I am grateful for this opportunity to learn from these young men. It seems that they are equally anxious to learn from us. Having the seminarians with us also provides a much needed self-examen for us ordained anywhere from 3 years to 40 plus. I feel personally enriched by this opportunity. I hope our parish community is touched as well by their prayerfulness, generosity, self-sacrifice and humor. I hope that they communicate to the rest that ordinary guys like them and us are called to serve, do so, and...accomplish "blessed things" in spite of our limitations.

Both Tom and Bobby are second career seminarians having served in the work force before religious life. They have given up much for the Kingdom of God. Two priests on our staff have done the same. Two of us answered God's call very young at age 16 - in another time and age - and neither have ever looked back. What is important here is to have the courage to say "yes" when God knocks at the door.

So, the summer is going well. I hear from time to time from old friends and that is always affirming. Next week some old friends will spend the day with us providing service - they are stepping beyond their boundaries for the the Lord and, in doing so, living the Gospel.

Some vacation time away is coming soon. I will spend that with a priest-friend that I have known now for 45 years.

Blessings!!!

2009-07-09T14:45:00.008-04:00

July 9, 2009

During the past two weeks the public media has given quite a lot of coverage to the late music and modern pop artist, Michael Jackson. Certainly the death of this talented singer and dancer is a tragedy. Death in and of itself is not a tragedy but the circumstances surrounding his death are tragic. As I listened more and more to the news vignettes of Michael Jackson's life and death, I couldn't help but think that if a movie or a play is ever written about him (and I am sure that will happen), a good title might be: Michael Jackson: A Tragedy in Life and Death.

I use the word "tragedy" in the classical sense. That genre of literature that is called a tragedy is thus defined: "a poem or tale that typically describes the downfall of a great man. A serious drama that describes conflict between the protagonist and a superior force (destiny) that has a sorrowful or disastrous conclusion." Mr. Webster supplied the aforementioned definition.

One might say that Michael Jackson was a great man. His greatness lay in his innate God-given talents, his creativity and his appeal on the stage. It also might be said that the tragedy of this popular entertainer could have been an inability to handle his greatness. Many great men and women have suffered from this insecurity. Greatness is a gift which can be used to bring out the God-given greatness in others (that Divine Image spoken of in Genesis).

It is said that a tragedian is an actor specializing in tragic roles. While I am not - and will never be - a devotee of Michael Jackson's music - I must admit that he was good at what he did. People loved him and the paparazzi attached themselves to his glittering, strangely tailored coat tails. But Michael, the individual, always appeared ill at ease. To say he was not comfortable in his own skin (using a popular expression) seems applicable literally and figuratively.

It is not my purpose to judge why he subjected himself to numerous surgeries that altered his appearance. But as a bystander, I have wondered why an apparently handsome and gifted person would do such a thing. The Michael Jackson of "kid fame" always seemed happy and free. The adult Michael looked tortured and agitated. Again, not a student of the modern pop music culture, I wondered why.

On one hand he appeared to have everything. But on the other he was lacking something. Whatever it was that he was lacking sought relief in the dark world of drugs (prescription or not, I cannot say). News items indicated that there were some who wanted to help him and deliver him from the abyss in which he was mired. The conflict between the individual human soul and destiny either became too much for him or the battle itself eluded him because of a blindness brought on by all the accoutrements of being a celeb.

As I watched the evening newscasts and saw the constant reruns of the highlights of his career, I became sad at the sadness before me. Fifty years young - successful in the ways of the world - wealthy today and poor tomorrow (rumors of financial troubles) - a large collection of siblings - the sorrow in the face of his mother - his final cry for what turned out to be a lethal drug - the tragedian was actively writing his own tragedy.

I was neither a fan nor a follower of Michael Jackson's music and dance. But the priest in me recognizes the pain that those closest to him, viz., his family must feel at this moment. None of them may easily articulate his tragic life. I hope that their sorrow is mitigated with the knowledge that God blessed him with wonderful gifts. Let God be the final judge of how he lived his life and used his gifts.

Pax et bonum!

2009-07-01T10:36:00.002-04:00

July 1
I am graduating this afternoon. That's right. I am concluding a two year course in Good Leaders Good Shepherds. It is a program all about being a better shepherd to God's People, being a better pastor. I hope that I will be. I hope that I have been a reasonably good priest and pastor these past 36 years. Aware of my limitations, I have tried hard. Perhaps with some new tools I can improve on the limitations, the weaknesses, the faults.
The GLGS Program has laid the foundation for a good priests' support group. I hope this develops.
In this Year of the Priest, pray for me and all priests. Just completing retreat and now GLGS coincides with this special year. Providential not coincidental!
Pax et Bonum!

2009-06-30T08:05:00.002-04:00

Tuesday, June 30

I am back. Back from retreat. What a great week to pray, rest, listen to the wisdom of a veteran retreat master, renew some old friendships and, as the kids say today, just chill'en out.
Malvern has become a spiritual oasis for me in recent years. Being spiritually comfortable in familiar surroundings is an important ingredient at this point in my life journey. There are enough surprises in life to contend with. I want no surprises on retreat. I want to know where everything is. There is peace and calm in security. Perhaps some may call this a "rut". I see it differently and I know my spiritual needs at this moment and avoid as many obstacles as I can.

The Year of the Priests began on Friday, June 19th. Three days later I began my retreat. What a good way to begin this special year! With retreat.

We focused on St. John Vianney, patron of parish priests and, indeed, patron of all priests. Generally, I know a fair amount about the Cure D'Ars but I found out also how little I know about Vianney. So, I have committed to reading his life right now. I am waiting for the book to arrive in the mail - hopefully, this week.

At this moment in my life I share priesthood with four other priests and two seminarians. This is healthy and good and I feel that "it is good for me to be here". We gather daily for evening prayer. Dinner follows and is usually quite lively with exchanges from a wide scope of experiences. Those of us older enjoy the input of the younger men and the seminarians seem open to listening to the experiences of men ordained many years. Good laughter echoes thoughout this cavernous rectory made much less cavernous since it is blessed to be filled right now.

Tim Dolan, Archbishop of New York, talks about priests being and manifesting their hapiness. It's the best vocation promotion. I couldn't agree more. I have always been happy and living with happy guys, just loving what they do, makes me even happier.

So, Lift up your hearts - Sursum Corda.

2009-06-20T14:30:00.002-04:00

Feast of the Immaculate Heart of Mary - June 20, 2009

On Monday I will begin my annual Retreat. It is a few days that I look forward to every year. These are days of spiritual renewal and renovation of the heart and mind. I will be under the tutelage of a Redemptorist Priest (tradition of St. Alphonsus) for the week. I have always jealously guarded this time and I am glad that I have. It is my way of going into the desert and facing my God with all my human weaknesses and asking for his strength and the Grace of the Holy Spirit.

My retreat comes at a great time - coinciding with the beginning of the Year of the Priest. I have much to think about. Much for which to give thanks. May I ask any readers to pray for me especially during this week.

Much has happened since my last retreat. For one thing my life has radically changed. I am in a new assignment responding to the challenges of a new parish, new parishioners, new surroundings .... everything is new. I rely on the prayers of God's People in my work and, most of all, I rely on God.

The Gospel for tomorrow asks the Apostles not to be afraid. And so, that is my pray that I not be afraid. There are storms and there are storms. In the vineyard there are many storms but with the Grace of God the waters can be calmed so as to preach from a boat less agitated.

Tomorrow I am preaching about prejudice and violence in our society. Pretty much encouraged by an article that I read last week that greatly disturbed me. So much so that I am even afraid of mentioning it on this blog. So I won't. But I will need courage as I speak Sunday from the pulpit. The pulpit is a place of authority and I pray to convey my message with authority but also without any hostility.

..until next week and after retreat.

2009-06-11T12:34:00.002-04:00

Thursday before Corpus Christi - June 11

Sunday is a great feast of the Church. Regretfully, it is often a forgotten day and not celebrated as the sacred liturgy asks. Corpus Christi actually asks that we pull out all stops, utilize all the bells and whistles available to us as a Church to celebrate the Blessed Sacrament, the Holy Eucharist.

The Liturgy is the summit toward which the activity of the Church is directed; at the same time it is the fountain from which all her power flows. (Const. on the Sacred Liturgy, Vat. II, Chap. 1, number 10)

The power of the Eucharist is "Presence" - Divine Presence.

So, we, as a parish, will celebrate with a Solemn Mass at Noon time which will be followed by a procession through part of our neighborhood, punctuated with three stops for the triple Benediction. All concludes on the front portico of the church. The purpose of the procession is to give witness to our faith.

Consider joining us. You will not be disappointed.

A guest will speak at all Masses this weekend promoting Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament Our guests are both lay women who have personal stories of how they came to so greatly value weekly Adoration.

Weekly Adoration here at SMT will take a somewhat new form. Wednesday will be THE day of Adoration all the time. It will begin following the 8:30 A.M. Mass and continue until 5:00 P.M.
This will be All of the time, all of the year. Adorers are needed - to give whatever amount of time you can. It is time well spent. Saturday Exposition will be suspended. Each Wednesday Adoration will conclude with the Chaplet of Divine Mercy and Benediction.

Here follows a quote from the sermon of Pope Benedict, Corpus Christi 2005:

We bring Christ, present under the sign of bread, onto the streets of our city. We entrust these streets, these homes, our daily life, to his goodness. May our streets be streets of Jesus! May our houses be homes for him and with him! May our life of everyday be penetrated by his presence! With this gesture, , let us place under his eyes the sufferings of the sick, the solitude of young people and the elderly, temptations, fears - our entire life. The procession represents an immense and public blessing for our city: Christ is, in person, the divine Blessing for the world. May the ray of this blesisng extend to us all.

2009-06-06T09:46:00.002-04:00

Trinity Sunday - June 7, 2009

We are having a Flea Market in the parish parking lot today and as I walk about I am hearing the same message - how the recession is touching each family, senior citizen, individual. It's a common theme today, it seems, every where one visits. A member of my own family was on pins and needles just a few weeks ago. After 30 years with the same company, he wasn't sure if the end had come. Thank God, it didn't but once there is a threat of your job becoming history, stress levels rise .

I had the unpleasant task of calling together our entire staff this past Thursday and notifying them that there would be no raises this year. I hated doing it. I have never done that in all my years as a pastor. I asked for their understanding. It was all I could ask for. I wasn;t happy giving the news and, to be sure, they were not happy receiving it.

I need to do some research. How did the Church handle the Great Depression? It seems that being a Church right now takes on new dimensions that pastoral ministers like me have never explored before. I heard about the Depression from my parents and grandparents. But I am not clear of the mission of the Church at that time. I don't think that we just keep on going "business as usual", at least I don't think so.

By-products of recessions are homeslessness, violence...and I could go on and on. You can l;ist them. So can I. Yet, as I think of this I am amazed at all the greed that we still see. Do recessions ultimately spring from greed? When one gets too much someone else does not have enough and there is enough in the world for everyone. Basic human wants are not satisfied because the school of hedonism teaches that pleasure is the principle good. There is a blindness to basic human needs.

The family of mankind must take a lesson from the family of God that we know as the Most Holy Trinity. The Trinitarian dynamic of love is the absolute opposite of the hedonistic dynamics of pleasure and selfishness. "Greater love..."is the message of the Trinity. It is the message of the Son, the second person of the Family of God. It is the Father whose love gave birth to humanity and it is the Spirit that continues to infuse life and grace into all of creation.

Look back on the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy.

2009-06-01T12:43:00.002-04:00

The Day after Pentecost

...so, what are those Works of Mercy that define who we really are as disciples of Jesus Christ, anointed with the Holy Spirit, called to faith and good works.

The Corporal Works of Mercy:
+ to feed the hungry
+ to give drink to the thirsty
+ to clothe the naked
+ to visit the inprisoned
+ to shelter the homeless
+ to visit the sick
+ to bury the dead

The Spiritual Works of Mercy:

+ to admonish the sinner
+ to instruct the ignorant
+ to counsel the doubtful
+ to comfort the sorrowful
+ to bear wrongs patiently
+ to forgive all injuries
+ to pray for the living and the dead.

Read Matthew25: 31ff.

Pax et Bonum!

2009-05-31T13:50:00.003-04:00

Pentecost Sunday - May 31, 2009

It's Pentecost Sunday - the Birthday of the Church.
I recently read an old meditation from a book that was quite popular when I was in the seminary (1963-1973) coming from the Year of Grace by Father Pius Parsch.

We all know that the disciples gathered with Mary in the cenacle or the upper room. It was there that Christ celebrated the Last Supper with his apostles. Father Parsch refers to the cenacle as the first Christian church. How appropriately described! The first church where the first followers of Jesus gathered together in prayer awaiting the Holy Spirit! I wonder if they broke bread and poured wine, i.e., celebrated the Eucharist. Generally we remember this time as the first novena - the nine days of prayer between the Ascension and Pentecost Sunday.

The older I get the more attached I become to this Feast Day and the more I come to appreciate the third person of the Blessed Trinity. Maybe such an awareness comes with the maturity of years, the wisdom of experience, the gradual deepening of the spiritual life - maybe I was just too dumb in my youth to understand the importance of the Spirit of God in our lives and in the life of the Church.

Something happened to those gathered in that upper room that day. That same thing continues to happen in all the upper rooms of all the hearts which are open to Sanctifying Grace, the life of the Lord within us. Think for a moment about the last time you practiced a corporal or spiritual work of mercy. In doing so, you responded to the Holy Spirit by moving out of your personal upper room with the message of Pentecost. The act of mercy could not have taken place without the "Divine push" that comes from the Triune God. Be strong in the faith. Be comfortable with who you are. Be open to the Holy Ghost and you won't go wrong.

If anybody actually is reading this today, reflect on the works of mercy. I will list them in the next blog. In the meantime, try to remember them and when you do, it is my assumption that you will find that some you may be actually practicing.

2009-05-27T10:04:00.002-04:00

May 27
The Wednesday before Pentecost .

Today's gospel and the gospel of last Sunday are the same. In this farewell prayer of Our Lord, He prays for his apsotles.
He prays for us.
He prays for priests.
Read John 17: 11-19
Consecrate them in the truth. As you sent me into the world, so I send them into the world. And I consecrate myself for them, so that they also may be consecrated in truth.

I became fascinated with this idea of consecration. So I looked up some things in various commentaries and I was rewarded with some good stuff for meditation.
The word for "consecrate" comes from a Greek word which means holy but then, the meaning gets even more basic,- meaning separate or different.

* Read Jeremiah 1:5.
* Read Exodus 28:41

Jeremiah is chosen while still in his mother's womb and the sons of Aaron were ordained by Moses and set apart for a special task.

Here is a thought that is mighty powerful. If one is chosen to serve God, he must have something of God's goodness and God's wisdom. To serve the all-holy God is to be holy oneself. God equips a man with the qualities he needs to carry out his call.

In other words God gives his priests the tools and the Grace. God's Grace is sufficient.

2009-05-17T11:15:00.003-04:00

Sixth Sunday of Easter
Ordination Weekend in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia

The third weekend in May is traditionally Ordination and First Mass weekend in our Archdiocese. It gives each priest an opportunity to give thanks for his vocation and his unique call to be a priest after the heart of Jesus Christ.

For me it has been 36 years - they have been 36 wonderful years. I would not trade them for anything in the world. At different times in my priesthood I have had the good fortune to be associated with seminarians. Most recently I have had the blessing of knowing four men from a particular parish and two who have worked with me here at SMT. These associations keep me young in thought and spirit. I see up close and personal a new generation of committed and generous men who will, please God, soon be serving the Lord and the Church.

A week ago I was at the Seminary. Having attended a meeting I was then invited to a bar-be-cue with the seminarians and their formation guides afterward. What a most pleasant evening. These young men have such a spirit. It is truly rejuvenating to my own priesthood and my spiritual life.

I love being a priest. I love my work. I embrace the challenges that are set before me. I also realize that I am an instrument in God's hands. Many times asked to plant the seed and then asked to be patient as the plants grow. As I get older, patience comes easier. Thank God!

Wonderful priests touched my life as I was growing up, in my years of formation and in my years as a priest. I hope that I have touched others the same way. It remains my constant prayer to be able to influence just one young man to enter the seminary. It is my daily prayer and my life long hope.

My ordination anniversary occurs this week. "Lord, in your wisdom, you chose me. In spite of my limitations, you continue to use me. Unworthy as I am, burn into my soul the imprint of your Divine Image. Make me holy. Make me an instrument of truth and love. Amen"

Pray for a priest this day who has touched you in some way.
And, pray for that priest whom you may have misjudged for whatever reason.

2009-05-08T08:06:00.005-04:00

May 8, 2009

The Notre Dame University Scandal continues to get top billing in the news.
Sadly, this prestigious Catholic university has brought shame upon the Catholic Church and the medium of Catholic education. I don't understand just why the University and the Congregation of the Holy Cross Fathers would take such a position that so compromises our faith. Notre Dame doesn't stand alone in its choice but it stands front and center. When it had an opportunity to be a "martyr," i.e. witness to the truths of our faith that are grounded in Scripture and Tradition, it chose to take a position that is contrary to the magisterium of the Church. It has confused the Catholic and non-Catholic world about what we stand for. Who can even gauge the destructive influence this will have on the consciences of the 2009 ND graduates?

Father Corapi's message coming through the Cardinal Newman Society is worth listening to. He says that no president in U.S. history has been so anti-Catholic in stance. The six minute talk is thought-provoking.

I keep wondering about one thing. As of today, the news media states that 70 American bishops have spoken out about the 2009 honoree at ND's commencement on May 17. Statistics tell us that we have 300 bishops in the U.S. Where are the other voices of these shepherds and the exercise of the teaching office of the bishop? Has anybody else wondered about that?

The wolves have infiltrated the flock and are nipping at the very heart of the truth. During these Easter Days that ask us to reflect on the Good Shepherd, let us pray...(you fill in the rest...)

2009-05-02T18:36:00.002-04:00

May 3, The Fourth Sunday of Easter

If it seems as though I have been AWOL, let me expain myself. Last week I attended a module of "Good Leaders, Good Shepherds". For those not in the know about GLGS, it is a program for priests sponsored by the Catholic Leadership Institute (CLI). I have been a part of this program since July, 2007. It has been a journey of learning that has required discipline, patience and commitment. All in all, the best by-product has been the fraternity of priests that I have come to know and enjoy, spiritually, socially and academically. We will soon conclude our sessions and "graduate" on July 1. I have one hope and it is that we can continue to meet to support each other in our minsitry, to enjoy a few laughs together and build on what we love so much - being priests. Please pray for us.

Pope Benedict has made the coming year of 2009-10 the Year of the Priest. How appropriate that it comes as we conclude GLGS. I am praying that I will be instrumental in encouraging just one young man to consider the priesthood during this coming year. When my time comes to an end on this earth my greatest wish is that I would have been a small instrument in influencing one to become a priest. It seems to me that it is the least I could do in thanksgiving for my many years as a happy priest.

If any young man out there is reading this and feels that you may be inclined to be a priest, let me know. I would be only too happy to talk to you - no strings attached. If the tug is there, give it a fair consideration. That's all God asks. That's all I ask.

Remember, we priests are not saints. We are vessels of clay seeking holiness and perfection. We come from ordinary families. We love God, the Church and People. We love to serve.
You don't have to be the smartest guy in the world, you just need to love as Jesus did.

I will pray this night and tomorrow that I hear from you.

2009-04-23T07:46:00.004-04:00

April 23, 2009
Time after Easter

"Witness"

It seems to me that the word "Witness" is key to our understanding the texts of the Sacred Liturgy, not only for today, but during the Easter Season.

Today's reading from the Acts of the Apostles tells us how the disciples, after being released from prison talk openly about Jesus, - his message, the Passion, Death and Resurrection. They do so unabashedly. This witness would eventually lead them to the witness of martyrdom.

In the Gospel today (from the John 3:31ff) it is the Baptist who gives witness to Jesus. The amazing humility of John the Baptist, the fact that he was so comfortable in his own skin gave him the remarkable self-assurance to point out the Messiah and then step into the shadows of the Gospel. John's witness would lead to martyrdom, as we all know.

Being a "witness" is what we are called to do by virtue of our Baptismal and Confirmation Grace. We give witness by simply being "good", by giving good example, being true to who we are and what we are.

The Baptist was comfortable with his identity. We need to be comfortable with our identity as Catholics. A CATHOLIC CAN'T PICK AND CHOOSE IN ORDER TO BE A WITNESS. A Catholic must understand the mission of the Gospel and of the Church. Then he or she must live it - uncompromisingly.

2009-04-19T05:53:00.002-04:00

Mercy Upon Mercy Upon Mercy
Divine Mercy Sunday

Imagine that we have an entire day dedicated to MERCY!
Should that surprise us?

The mission of Jesus was about mercy. Reading the Gospels, it becomes very clear very quickly that our Savior is merciful and compassionate.

One of my favorite Gospels illustrating this divine attribute is the story of the Adulterous Woman from John's Gospel. I like this story because it so clearly manifests the mercy of God.
The law of Moses mandated that a woman who committed adultery was to be stoned to death.
The woman of John 8: 1ff. was "caught" in the act of adultery. It is the "caught" that has always captured my attention. Being caught somehow implies that someone was out looking to catch someone. One who looks for trouble will usually find it. So, the woman was caught by those self-righteous fools whose foolishness would soon cause them some embarrassment and, hopefully, some self-reflection.

They brought her to Jesus whose heart was moved to mercy - maybe so greatly moved to mercy because of the sneaky ways of the foolish of heart. Christ challenges the "catchers": Let those among you who are without sin throw the first stone. Of course, you know the rest of the story, as Paul Harvey would have said.

One by one, shamefacedly, they slithered away. The slithering part is my invention.
Jesus turns and says: Well lady, it looks like your accusers have all gone away. I certainly don't accuse you. Now listen, Go! And be good. Don't sin again.

Do you think she repented?
Somehow, I think she did.
There is hope for you and me.
There is mercy upon mercy upon mercy.
Thank God for that. I can sleep more easily tonight convinced of DIVINE MERCY.

2009-04-17T05:39:00.002-04:00

Thursday of the Octave of Easter

I took a few days off.

Holy Week and Easter are always like making a retreat without going away. I mean it, in spite of all the work, it has a way of bringing the Pascal Mystery into focus.

I read something since Easter Sunday which I really thought was neat. Not putting on any airs, I never heard of this quote before. Maybe I should have.

Describing the Catholic Church, James Joyce once said: "Here comes everybody".
As I thought about this I couldn't help but think that we are an interesting group of people, some might say, even a motley group, certainly we are an interesting study.

We are everywhere. Our influence crosses cultural lines and does a pretty good job of speaking the language of the people. We are good at the language of love.

Loyalty is strong but we fight a lot among ourselves. While we stick up for our Church if attacked from without, we scuffle a great deal with one another from within.

I marvel at those who proudly call themselves Catholic yet their practice of the faith is different from what the "book" calls for.

The Catholic Culture is pervasive but at times we like to control it rather than allow it to guide us.

Our ritual is engaging and prayerful and the delight of the media. I draw your attention to yesterday's installation of the new Archbishop of New York. There is no "show and tell" like Catholic Liturgy - when we say we are sacramental and incarnational, we truly are.

Let us rejoice in our faith and in the blessings and consolation that it gives us. Also, be grateful for Our Mother, the Church. Never be ashamed of the Rock that she is "ever constant, ever new".

Happy Easter!

2009-04-12T08:20:00.005-04:00

Easter Sunday

We have just completed a journey through Holy Week and the Paschal Triduum.

Alleluia! Christ is risen!
And remains risen in the hearts of all believers.

I gathered early this morning on our front lawn at the grave of the founding pastor - an interfaith sunrise service. Admittedly, I am still somewhat uncomfortable at these gatherings. Maybe it's because they are so informal and we celebrate somewhat more formally. But I noticed the enthusiasm among the folks - an enthusiasm brought about by an event that took place 2000 years ago and continues to touch our lives.

I welcome all those who attend church today - no matter what your faith-heritage is. You are there, they are there because a Man overcame the powers of darkness, death and sin.
That man, Jesus Christ, challenges us to do the same.

Whatever clouds have come into your life at this time, be not afraid! Fear, in the end, is destructive. Look what the Apostles were able to do once they overcame their fear.

Happy Easter to my readers!
What a glorious week it has been.

2009-04-11T07:58:00.003-04:00

Holy Saturday

Today we wait!
There is no liturgy today. Christ has died and He has been laid in the tomb. Now we wait.
Like Mary, like the Apostles, we wait.

Waiting is one thing we "moderns" just don't like to do. Waiting is not one of the virtues of the 21st century man or woman.
Everything is instant and microwaveable.
There is fast-food and drive-in "just-about-everything".

My suggestion and profound hope is that you take some time for reflection today.
O.K., I understand that you can't give a whole day to quiet. But, I challenge you to find 30 minutes, just a half hour. Sit quietly - do nothing - contemplate your faith and the blessings and the joys that it brings to you. That's your "action" for today.

Your prayer: Jesus.

2009-04-10T09:33:00.004-04:00

Good Friday

Some older spiritual books and journals tell us that Good Friday is a day of mourning. For some reason I resist the idea of today being a day of mourning

The Savior certainly did suffer and He really died. But the purpose of His death was redemption. There is nothing in my mind mournful about redemption.

The Cross was a horrible symbol of torture and execution reserved for the worst criminals. But Jesus' death transformed the Cross into a sign of hope. We do not look in disgust at the Cross nor do we grow mournful in our reflections on the death of Jesus. We look at the Cross with hope.

We are baptized and our sins are forgiven using the sign of the Cross.
In Confirmation we are sealed with the Chrism, again, using the sign of the Cross.

How many prisoners, be they criminals or prisoners of conscience, have scratched a Cross on the wall of their cell!

Looking at the Cross gives unspeakable and, maybe even, unexplainable comfort! Why are we comforted by the sight of a man in agony? Through the Cross, Christ brings joy to the world. Our sufferings could never equal his sufferings.

Jesus' trust (in the face of despair) is a teachable moment when we are tempted to throw in the towel.

+ Hard economic times
+ Government Leaders challenging our Catholic values
+ The threat of relativism all around us

...is all satan's way of getting us to despair as we bear the Cross. Had Jesus come down from the Cross, we would not have been redeemed. In remaining on the Cross, He confounded the powerful and the sinister.

The movie Jesus of Nazareth ends with this scene and these words: The Scribe enters the empty tomb, he looks, and he knows what has happened and says to himself, "Now, it all begins...it all begins."

Reflect today on what the Cross and empty tomb proclaim and be of good cheer, i.e., TRUST.

Action: Take a few moments to quietly look at a crucifix. Take in, not the sorrow, but your salvation.

Prayer: We adore You, O Christ and we bless You; because by your Holy Cross, You have redeemed the world.

Holy Thursday

2009-04-09T06:14:00.007-04:00

At the Chrism Mass this morning the Church celebrates the Priesthood - the Sacrament of Holy Orders. During the Mass the priests renew their commitment to priestly service. The priests express their resolve to "unite themselves more closely to Christ", to sacrifice "pleasures and ambitions" in order to bring "peace and love to their brothers and sisters."

The priests finally resolve to celebrate the Eucharist "with devotion" and to teach the faith without compromise.

Please pray for me today. I count on your prayers because, like Paul, I am a vessel of clay.

Holy Thursday is my favorite day of the Triduum. I always remember priests who have touched my life and priests with whom I have shared ministry. Allow me to mention a few:

Father Dick Ward - my first pastor who taught me so much, how to carry the Cross. Father Joe Dougherty, Msgr. Laurence Kelly, Msgr. Jim Howard - all good men who gave me great insights into the priesthood.

So many, whose gentleness, I wish to imitate.

Prayer: (Psalm 88:2) Forever will I sing the goodness of the Lord.

Action: Write a letter to a priest today and express your love and support for him and his sacred ministry.

2009-04-08T08:16:00.003-04:00

Wednesday in Holy Week

Today is the first day of Passover. Let us remember our Jewish Brothers and Sisters as they begin their solemn celebration of deliverance from Egyptian bondage to the freedom that God meant for all of his children.

Today was traditionally called Spy Wednesday. The Gospel of today's Mass tells of Judas going out to betray his Master for thirty pieces of silver. Yesterday's Gospel mentioned that when Judas left "it was night". The late Bishop Fulton J. Sheen coined a phrase: "It is always night when we leave the Lord!" So true, when we walk away from the Lord through sin and a depraved heart, we head straight into the darkness.

Action: Most parishes will have confessions today. Resolve to make a good confession in preparation for the Sacred Triduum.

Prayer: Act of Contrition
O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee and I detest all my sins because I dread the loss of heaven and the pains of Hell. But most of all because they have offended Thee, my God, who art all good, and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve with the help of Thy grace to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen

2009-04-07T09:08:00.004-04:00

Tuesday in Holy Week

We have two personalities in today's gospel, viz., Peter and Judas.
Judas will betray the Master and disappear into history as an example of despair. Despair is an attitude and a sin that we must avoid at all costs. Despair can lead to depression and an isolation that is spiritually suffocating.

Peter is the rock that often seems more like sand than rock. Did you ever wonder why Jesus chose Peter to be the foundation of his Church? There is a strength in weakness. Christ recognized something in that tough-talking fisherman. As Christ foretold the denials, He also prophesied that eventually Peter would faithfully follow him, even to the cross (speaking of the the kind of death that Peter would suffer).
Peter is a powerful example of humility and repentance.

Prayer: In You, O Lord, I take refuge; let me never be put to shame. (Psalm 71)

Think about your most awful sin and, if you need to go to confession, do so. If you have already confessed it, thank God for the a spirit of repentance.

Confessions at St. Martin of Tours: Wednesday 4:00 - 5:00 and 7:30 - 8:30 P.M.

2009-04-06T14:30:00.002-04:00

Monday in Holy Week

Thought for today: The Gospel for the day says that not only was Jesus in the cross-hairs of his enemies but so was Lazarus (the Lazarus who was recently raised from the dead). To be a follower of Jesus means that we may share enemies with Jesus.

Question: Am I so committed to the Gospel that I could be seen by others as a threat?

Prayer: Psalm 101:3 (Communion Antiphon of today's Mass): When I am in trouble, Lord, hear me when I call, answer me quickly.

Pax et Bonum.

2009-04-01T09:25:00.002-04:00

I am excited! I am pumped! Holy Week is just a few days away and this is my favorite time of the year. Unlike Christmas, which as many of you know, I thoroughly enjoy, Holy Week provides a prayerful atmosphere different from any other time of the Church Year. How can I say it differently or be more emphatic, "Get into it"!

Holy Week begins with Palm Sunday. What a neat day. Truly a day of contrasts. Beginning with the blessing of Palm we are reminded of Christ the King, Christ in anticipation of his glory. The Palm Blessing and Procession. It is very festive. Red vestments and freshly cut palm branches (or other branches) wave in the air. The procession is more than a mere memory, we actually accompany Jesus. We do so in following the symbol of the Cross which is at the head of the procession; we are led by the priest, a representative of Christ, through the laying on of hands; and we gather as community which embodies the very presence of Jesus. "Where two or three gather in my name, there I am in their very midst".
I used to get bent out of shape if the procession didn't move in an orderly and quiet way. But I have become comfortable with reverent disorganization. After all, they didn't walk in "two's" on the first Palm Sunday. So, sing, wave your palms, greet you fellow parishioner and be filled with the Hosanna atmosphere.

Arriving in the Church and at the altar, we experience a shift - from celebration to sobering sorrow. The Gospel of the Passion is proclaimed in three parts and reminding us of the redemptive suffering of Jesus Christ.

Take your palm home and remember that it is not a superstitious lucky charm. It is a visible sign of the powerful prayer of God's Church which asks for God's blessing upon all the places where you put it. We have faith in the Church and in her prayers.

Our customs have instructed us to place the palm behind a crucifix, a holy image or the like. Palm is a symbol of victory. When you look at the palm throughout the year you should be
reminded of the victory in which you share.

Think about that victory today and in these days before Palm Sunday and Holy Week. May your heart be lifted up.

Hosanna to the son of David!

2009-03-25T20:26:00.004-04:00

The Lord be with you all!

I just returned from Mass this evening - celebrating the Annunciation. It is a day that seems to focus us on the "will of God" in our lives. Mary is a model of faith. But as I was throwing a few thoughts around I began to think that as Mary is a model of faith so is the Son. In just two weeks we will be in Holy Week. As we reflect upon Jesus in his Agony in the Garden of Gethsemani we must not forget his prayer. Father, if it possible, let this cup pass. But not my will, your will be done. Put in another way, Jesus was praying that if it was at all possible, he didn't want to have to undergo the terrible passion and death. But not what I want but what the Father wants.

There you have it. A dovetailing of the prayers of the Mother and the Son. At the Annunciation Mary responds Let it be done to me as you will. In the Garden of Gethsemani Jesus prays not my will but yours. I never really looked at these two events in this manner. But it is a powerful lesson on being obedient to the will of God in our lives.

The will of God has been on my mind a great deal these last few months. I truly have been wrestling with the whole concept. The idea of being obedient to God's will has never been so concrete to me as in recent days, weeks and months. I keep murmuring, maybe more like muttering: God's will! God's will! God's will!

My reflections border on being serious, maybe even profound, and then I get a little light-hearted and smile at how God gets what he wants.

Well, these are good thoughts to take with us into the final weeks of Lent. Say the "Lord's Prayer" with thoughtfulness: "Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven." On earth as it is in heaven - think about that for a moment - on earth as it is in heaven!

Make that your prayer and meditation.

2009-03-16T15:16:00.004-04:00

Good afternoon on this Monday of the Third Week of Lent. Today is the day of my installation as pastor of St. Martin of Tours Parish. They tell me that it's official after today. Someone remarked to me this morning that since that is the case, I still have the chance to bail out. Don't worry, I 'm not.

This is a good forum to thank those who have worked so tirelessly to make this evening memorable. I know that they often found me somewhat disengaged from the entire affair, so to them, let me offer my sincerest gratitude.

I have never been a good receiver and I need to work harder in that area. I love to give but I remain uncomfortable being the center of attention.

Thank you all.

...and now about this Lenten time and the call to Fast. Did you realize that there was a time in our Catholic Tradition when we abstained from not only meat but all animal products, like eggs, milk, butter and cheese? The Lenten Fast was physically rigorous.

In recent years this has all changed. Fasting has been gradually reduced and therefore, in the minds of practitioners, pretty much minimized. It's all symbolic now.

A reflection I read over the last weekend urged the reader to remember that fasting is not merely about diet. It has an inner significance. It is a call to convert the mind and will. St. John Chrysostom writes, "Fasting and abstaining are just not from food but from sins." St. Basil has an interesting observation, "What good is the fast from food if we indulge in cruel criticism and slander?"

Fasting goes together with prayer and almsgiving. It has no value without prayer and the important outreach through charity.

Peace and all that is good!

2009-03-09T15:11:00.002-04:00

Did you ever wonder why the Lord asks us not to judge another?
We have no idea what is in the heart of another or what demons invade their spirit or what crosses they may be carrying. We too often judge the book by the cover. We judge the person by externals. Maybe our Lenten Good Work should be: Lighten up on others. We are all God's children, even with the cracks in the human facade.

Have a good day!

2009-03-05T15:40:00.004-05:00

I was finally forced to sit down today and plan some details for my installation Mass on March 16. Frankly, I am not "into it." I find the ceremony rather contrived and more apt for the pompous of heart. This is my fourth time and in each case it has changed and evolved to this, may I say, rather aliturgical hodgpodge that now involves a bishop. The new pastor doesn't even get to preach at his installation Mass.

Anyway, my plan all along was to use the occasion as a "Vocation's Night." I have invited some wonderful seminarians to be part of the Liturgy. I asked them to serve the Mass and be present to our young people that night. I have invited the sixth, seventh and eighth graders and their parents along with our scouts and some high school students together with whatever parishioners feel so moved to attend. It is my purpose to introduce the Sems at the conclusion of the Mass and invite the young people that I hope will attend to meet them in the cafeteria afterward for some refreshment and interesting conversation.

These young guys have been a source of great edification to me as a priest and in some cases as their pastor. I presently work with two of them and I see their dedication to the apostolate and to the Church. They are all just so happy in their discernment as they look forward to the priesthood. I pray for them every day: "Dear God, keep them close to you, keep them ordinary and not above the people for whom they will be ordained, keep them in love with the basics of parish priesthood and not infected in anyway with careerism. Make them holy but never afraid of getting their hands dirty for Christ. Make them prayerful but not unreachable by those of us who have not reached the pinnacle of sanctity."

The installation is not a coronation, but asking God's blessing on the the new pastor that he be a priest after the heart of Christ.

Installation Mass

Msgr. Ed Deliman

Monday, March 16, 2009

7:00 P.M.

St. Martin of Tours Church

Oxford Circle.

Did you all know that our church has been called "The Cathedral of Oxford Circle"?

That's all for now...

2009-02-24T20:14:00.007-05:00

Heed the Call !!!

I am writing with the hope that there are some young men out there (18 years of age or older) who might be considering the priesthood. Maybe there are some who have thought about it, then for one reason or another pushed the idea out of your mind. This is an invitation to sincerely ask yourself if God is calling and if you think this is the case, why not give God a chance. Give it a try!

I feel that the Lord is calling some of you, if not many of you. Here is some advice. Talk to a priest, a trusted friend or confidante.

In the end you will never know unless you try it. Prayerful Discernment is important. This discernment may lead you to the seminary where your reflection will continue. Seminaries are houses of formation where men go "to figure it out."

I know that sounds simplistic but basically that's what it is all about. Through sound spiritual, academic and disciplinary components candidates continue discernment.

It is true, discernment for some, leads them to embrace new ways of life while, for others, this discernment eventually leads to ordination. What I think should be clear is - don't give a deaf ear to the invitation to "figure it out."

How tragic to reflect later in life at age 55/60 and "wonder if" I should have been a priest.

So, to you men out there who have given some thought to this matter, Pope John Paul II said "Do not be afraid."

2009-02-21T15:54:00.003-05:00

Lent - Lent - Lent!

It's here - again! Calling us to fasting and prayer and almsgiving.
Do I really have to do that?
The gospel says so. Check out the Gospel for Ash Wednesday from Matthew 6:1-6, 16-18. IT could not be more clear.
One by one, let's explore each suggestion.

+ Prayer is conversation, it is a dialogue with God. Conversation is so important in our daily lives. We sustain relationships through conversation. If there is a breakdown in dialogue in a marriage, problems soon occur. Friends need to talk. When they don't, it does not take very long before a rift happens. We need to talk to God as well. The Lord wants to hear from us. He is a good listener. But we have to talk. That's prayer and it can take many forms ,-that's the beauty of it. You can talk to God by saying formal prayers, reflecting on the Sacred Scriptures, reading about some of the great saints of our tradition or finally you can use your own words. You can sit before the Blessed Sacrament and simply look at the tabernacle. You look at Him and He looks back at you. Good things happen through prayer. Prayer is lifting up our minds and hearts to God. You can do this anywhere. That's another plus. Driving to work, walking in a park, riding SEPTA, at home, in church, on your lunch break. Try it.. You might like it.

+ Fasting is disciplining your body, mind and spirit. It comes by way of making sacrifices, self-denial. Fasting toughens us. Lord knows, we need to be stronger. Imagine the athlete. A good example of how to condition ourselves! In order to win the race there is required a form of fasting, if you will. Eating the proper foods, getting the right amount of sleep, thorough workouts. Fasting in the spiritual life is no different. We need to be strong in the face of temptation. Satan is powerful. Satan can be very convincing. Satan can make evil look so good.
Satan really is a bully and the only way to handle this bully is to be strong morally? So, what will you do? How will you be conditioned to stand up for the truth, for what is good.

+Almsgiving is giving money. Oh, that hurts, you say. Especially today with this stressed economy. But remember, there is always someone out there worse off than you. The Rice Bowls are excellent opportunities to give alms, to make those little sacrifices that will physically help another. A percentage of the Operation Rice Bowl remains right here in our own Archdiocese to feed the hungry. Why not do the rice bowl meal in your home once a week during the season of Lent.